[aloneinlife]

ive been married for 12 years have other post on here.. 12 years of been unhappy and staying for my kid puy at this point in my life its time to move on to i hope a better life.. im sure the ife going try cost me my job kid and after 12 years of living in hell with her how much more can she do to me i never cheated of her..but now there is a woman thats wants to love me and be in my life but im afraid to let her in my heart.. i have never been i love with any woman she tells me she will be good to me will not treat me bad at all i dont know what i should do open my heart to her and hope i dont get hurt so im here asking what should i do?????

 

[sharkeey]

Just roll with it.

 

[ladybird]

If you were not in love with your wife, then why did you marry her???

 

[Michie]

Do NOT cheat!

If you are unhappy, deprecate, leave, file. Do not be a coward and a cake eater.

If you are unhappy and have been the entire time best fill your wife in first.
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[EleGirl]

Yep, don't cheat. This woman is telling you all kinds of things right now. You have no idea how that affair would turn out. Only about 3% of affairs last very long. You'd end up alone and have lost everything.

If you are so unhappy in youro marriage. Tell your wife, get a divorce. Then you are free to date.

How long have you known this other woman? I guess you work with her?

 

[aloneinlife]

we only got married cause she was having my kid. we where never in love and never have been.and the only way i can leave her is if she not at home if not she will try to fight me one of us would be in jail .. not leaving her for other woman its the years of been unhappy and never been in love.. im going to lose everything anyway so when i move out i may give other woman a chance..do know i got to leave from where i am there no talking to this woman she so evil..my kid 12 now i hope she will understand

 

[smithcarloso]

This woman is telling you all kinds of things right now.

 

[waiwera]

If your marriage is truly over...end it, move out and move on.
You both deserve to be in a warm loving relationship...so divorce.

Then think about starting a new relationship with a new woman... don't 'dirty' your new relationship by making her the 'other woman' in your dying marriage and dragging her through your, maybe messy, divorce.

 

[Ten_year_hubby]

but now there is a woman thats wants to love me and be in my life but im afraid to let her in my heart.. i have never been i love with any woman she tells me she will be good to me will not treat me bad at all i dont know what i should do open my heart to her and hope i dont get hurt so im here asking what should i do?????

Run away as fast as you can. As bad as things are now, you can easily make them a whole lot worse. When I speak to the adult children of fathers who left them behind, I can't imagine myself trying to explain this to my kids

 

[EleGirl]

Why will you lose your job if you leave your wife?

And why would you lose your child. Cann't you get 50% custody?