I like sex with my man a lot. But I also like affection. Little kisses during the day, hugs, maybe a total of not even 30 seconds a day. I talk to my man about this a lot. I have even told him that our relationship will not sustain if he doesn't show me some affection. Yes we could have sex every night but I need more. He is in pain right now with sciatica and we have not had sex for 2 weeks. That is the longest we have gone and that does not bother me. He is in pain and I understand. I get migraines and sex is the last thing on my mind when I get them. But I cannot go day to day to day without a little kiss or a touch. I will dry up into an old prune. When I tell him this things will be ok for a few days and then it'll peter out again. He was o so affectionate when we first met of course the honeymoon stage and all that. Sometimes when maybe the 8th day goes by without even a peck on the cheek I just want to run away or climb into bed and pull the covers over my head and just fade away. I am tired of being the one to initiate affection all the time. Am I being selfish? He does ask if I need anything a lot. Can he make me coffee, etc. and yes that is sweet and means a lot but I need touch.