Hello everyone. My husband and I are soon to be physically separated. We actually have been "separated" for many years but living in the same house. Now finally we are separating our finances etc. It has been a hard year our oldest son was diagnosed with a mental illness. Too make a long story short my husband also has mental illness. Always thought all these years he was just a hoarding drunk. LOL My husband refuses therapy and I am fed up with it all. My husband is in an online relationship and is very happy and is planning on going to see her when we finally get the house sold. I just changed careers and with a lot of hard work doing extremely well. Finally getting out and being social. I love it. I only mentioned to a few people that I am getting separated but you know how people are the word has spread. I am 46 years old and I don't want to honk my horn but I am really fun to be around. Now here is my problem. I went to a charity fund raiser last weekend. One of my ex bosses was there. He is 7 years younger than me. We are good friends and I supported him when he broke up with his wife. I never told him I had a horrible marriage but he heard it through the grape vine that I am separating from my husband. I am pretty sure he is flirting big time with me. I will admit there might be some attraction to him, but how do I know? Now for my other big problem, my office mate who is 16 years younger than me noticed this guy was hanging around me during the fundraiser. He tried to follow me everywhere. He even asked me to marry him?? I figured he had too much to drink. On Monday I opened our door to my office and there were dozen roses!! Say what?? I am not attracted to him at all and he is way too young. This past week has been weird with the flirting office mate. I told him I am way too old for him. He said he can’t stop thinking about me and thinks the other guy is totally wrong for me. Oh this is too weird for me!! I don’t even know what my question is? It has been 12 years since I had any sex. There I said it!!