My wife and me have been together for 3 years and married for a little over a year now. She is out with her mom for dinner right now and it got me to thinking. Does it bother you that your inlaws probably know more about how your wife/husband really feel about you or your marriage then you do? I'm pretty positive she talks about me/us. I'd love to hear what my wife says as I'd like to know how she really feels about us. She says she's happy and all. I guess what got me curious about us is that she got life insurance through her work the other day and made her mom the beneficiary instead of me. Is this normal precedure in a marriage? My friends say it's strange.