My husband and I had a micro vacation just the two of us, kids at home. It was great to reconnect, especially without the distractions of everyday life. We've been married for twenty years and have worked together for most of them. Everything was going great until the last night when I dressed up in what I considered to be sexy lingerie. Now I know I'm a few pounds overweight (25 maybe), but I get hit on all the time at my retail job. It made me feel horrible that my husband didn't seem to be the least bit excited about the effort. Instead he made me feel horrible after I reacted to his lack of reaction by saying "maybe I shouldn't have bought this outfit. It makes me look fat." He said "throw it away then." I was so disappointed and upset about it. He also told me that if I felt that way, then I should use my exercise machine. I cried that night, and he really didn't seem to care a whole lot. Eventually we had sex anyway, but I haven't forgotten about it. Any suggestions? I have already started to cut down on my intake of food. I'm hoping to start exercising soon, but I have an injury I'm still recovering from. THANK YOU!