If you can document statements she makes (time, date, what was said), you can make a good case in court when it comes to determining the amount of child support you pay.
You can also call in a report of welfare fraud if you suspect she's undermining her job search or falsifying information to get welfare payments. She's required to report "household income" - not just her income - when she applies for aid. I am guessing that the incomes of her friend(s) that she lives with plus her two days as a waitress would disqualify her from collecting free taxpayer dollars.
Finally, the courts can "impugn" her income when calculating child support. They will treat her income as if she is earning full-time pay at minimum wage if you can demonstrate that she's capable of working. If she has a degree and doesn't have a severely limiting disability, you should have no problem getting that, at least.
You can also call in a report of welfare fraud if you suspect she's undermining her job search or falsifying information to get welfare payments. She's required to report "household income" - not just her income - when she applies for aid. I am guessing that the incomes of her friend(s) that she lives with plus her two days as a waitress would disqualify her from collecting free taxpayer dollars.
Finally, the courts can "impugn" her income when calculating child support. They will treat her income as if she is earning full-time pay at minimum wage if you can demonstrate that she's capable of working. If she has a degree and doesn't have a severely limiting disability, you should have no problem getting that, at least.
