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I agree it is a bit harsh. I think your wife loved you but you weren't as perfect as you paint here. You committed adultery and still expected her to get with your program, which everyone on here seems to be conveniently ignoring and making generalizations about her not wanting sex with you etc. I am sure you told her many times that she wasn't doing it for you, the EA was her fault etc. The death knell to your marriage I am sure of it.Well I don't know entirely about 1 and 2, I wouldn't say I've had a loveless marriage or something...that's a bit harsh.
But the other points are valid. I'll feel better when the last couple pieces of her furniture that you want is out of the house that I am living in. I already have a couple replacement pieces on order that are different.
As far as dating, it's shocking a bit how completely different am I female friend and I are developing a relationship. She is quite different in a lot of ways, all which seemed very positive and a little shocking that someone can be that different
You had at least some more years after that as she had every right to divorce you then. You decided to divorce, what else do you want from her? Perhaps you are scared you are making a mistake and you will discover the problem wasn't your wife after all. That's a risk you have to take, you started that ball rolling already. it is too late to go back, the damage is done