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We got married within 3 months after her father pasted away, this is for cultural reason, it was a rocky and control relationship before the marriage. We have been married for two years and have a 14 week old baby girl. During this period I have been kicked out of the house numerous times. The longest time was about 2 months where I lived in formula 1 hotel.
She works full time but never contribut a cent to the family. I paid for all the rental and living expense. I worked hard but I am constantly being told that I am lazy when I return home after a long day of work a rest on my couch.
I do the cooking, washing the dish and my own laundry.
I am constantly being told that whatever I do is wrong.
I have not seen any of my friends since the marriage because her reasons are they are bad influence and not educated.
Each time I want to see my family we have an argument, she claims that they are lazy and all are bastards. Because both my brother and sister had been divorced, she said my family is diseased. We must stay away from them. I am not allow to bring my daughter home to see her grand parents.
She tracks be each time I go to work, if I am busy and cannot call home, she tells me off.
I fear to see my parents to avoid argument.
We had counciling together but she cannot be changed. Either stay with her and the baby or go and see my patents and we get a devorce.
I feel totally trapped, I want to stay and raised my daughter but I will not be a happy father, and we will have constant argument.
I care for her and the baby and hope that one day she will change.
Will she?
She works full time but never contribut a cent to the family. I paid for all the rental and living expense. I worked hard but I am constantly being told that I am lazy when I return home after a long day of work a rest on my couch.
I do the cooking, washing the dish and my own laundry.
I am constantly being told that whatever I do is wrong.
I have not seen any of my friends since the marriage because her reasons are they are bad influence and not educated.
Each time I want to see my family we have an argument, she claims that they are lazy and all are bastards. Because both my brother and sister had been divorced, she said my family is diseased. We must stay away from them. I am not allow to bring my daughter home to see her grand parents.
She tracks be each time I go to work, if I am busy and cannot call home, she tells me off.
I fear to see my parents to avoid argument.
We had counciling together but she cannot be changed. Either stay with her and the baby or go and see my patents and we get a devorce.
I feel totally trapped, I want to stay and raised my daughter but I will not be a happy father, and we will have constant argument.
I care for her and the baby and hope that one day she will change.
Will she?