Hi guys and gals
I need advice, I was in a relationship for 6 years and 2 of those was bad, the rest was awesome. We own a house together and about 2 years ago I started a hobby that became such an obsession I put it before everything. Really I don't know where my head was going. she tried to tell me things were not good for a whole 2 years. She shut down and refused to talk to me about it. I guess she used to say I don't listen so whats the point. Anyway I met someone through this hobby and she gave me all the things that boost ones ego, I used to talk to her about my problems and she offered advice, as time went on she said that my partner would never be any different and it was hopeless, then she came onto me and at my weekest point I fell into this relationship. I didnt love her but she made me feel better than at home. Unfortunately she did fall for me and became very obsessive. I tried many times to let her down gently but in the end I decided I needed to work things out at home. Me and my beautiful lady worked out some issues we were having and I returned home to build back what was missing in our relationship. Unfortunately the the lady I was having an affair with went around and saw my partner, telling her god knows what. I came home from work and was confronted, she then booted me out. since then I have foud a rental and started coucelling for what was determined my controlling nature. I have done everything my partner has asked, it is now 3 months in and she will not tell me if we have any chance of reconciliation. Its driving me crazy not knowing. So thats what brought me here. Does anyone have ny suggestions because I don't know what to do.
Thanks Andy
I need advice, I was in a relationship for 6 years and 2 of those was bad, the rest was awesome. We own a house together and about 2 years ago I started a hobby that became such an obsession I put it before everything. Really I don't know where my head was going. she tried to tell me things were not good for a whole 2 years. She shut down and refused to talk to me about it. I guess she used to say I don't listen so whats the point. Anyway I met someone through this hobby and she gave me all the things that boost ones ego, I used to talk to her about my problems and she offered advice, as time went on she said that my partner would never be any different and it was hopeless, then she came onto me and at my weekest point I fell into this relationship. I didnt love her but she made me feel better than at home. Unfortunately she did fall for me and became very obsessive. I tried many times to let her down gently but in the end I decided I needed to work things out at home. Me and my beautiful lady worked out some issues we were having and I returned home to build back what was missing in our relationship. Unfortunately the the lady I was having an affair with went around and saw my partner, telling her god knows what. I came home from work and was confronted, she then booted me out. since then I have foud a rental and started coucelling for what was determined my controlling nature. I have done everything my partner has asked, it is now 3 months in and she will not tell me if we have any chance of reconciliation. Its driving me crazy not knowing. So thats what brought me here. Does anyone have ny suggestions because I don't know what to do.
Thanks Andy