Ok. I am going to be blunt. Why the He11 are you putting up with this!? Do you have no self respect? I am going to give you a little advise.
1) see an attorney NOW!
2) File for divorce, seeking custody of the kids as the primary care giver and spousal support
3) Read No MOre Mr. Nice Guy and the man up threads IMMEDIATELY
40 FInd your balls. You are a man and deserve to be treated as one. Kick this trash to the curb and find someone who will respect and love you. Also start looking for a way to support yourself. I firmly believe that SAH dad's loose the respect of their spouses quite frequently.
Good luck!
1) see an attorney NOW!
2) File for divorce, seeking custody of the kids as the primary care giver and spousal support
3) Read No MOre Mr. Nice Guy and the man up threads IMMEDIATELY
40 FInd your balls. You are a man and deserve to be treated as one. Kick this trash to the curb and find someone who will respect and love you. Also start looking for a way to support yourself. I firmly believe that SAH dad's loose the respect of their spouses quite frequently.
Good luck!