well, this is new for me. But I need to get it out there. Hoping it will help with the process.
I Just caught my wife of 18 years sleeping with another man 2 weeks ago. This would be the 4th time in 18 years. I suspect probably 2 others.
I am deeply in love with her but know that i cant go on living this kind of bs all the the time. My anger at her has mostly succeeded and just trying to deal now.
I am a stay at home dad for the last 3 years that works sometimes (if that makes sense..side jobs while kids at school)
I work more in the summer but am still able to do it from home with the kids.
my wife works 60+ hours a week and then frequently has to wine and dine till midnight.
I told her I wasnt leaving my kids and if she wanted to leave to go. well she did.
she wants to move back in next month...I would be on the couch of course because i am a gentleman. She legally can do this I know.
Its funny she has spent more time with the kids in the last 2 weeks than the last 3 years..prob guilt.
Any insight would be great. thanks
I Just caught my wife of 18 years sleeping with another man 2 weeks ago. This would be the 4th time in 18 years. I suspect probably 2 others.
I am deeply in love with her but know that i cant go on living this kind of bs all the the time. My anger at her has mostly succeeded and just trying to deal now.
I am a stay at home dad for the last 3 years that works sometimes (if that makes sense..side jobs while kids at school)
I work more in the summer but am still able to do it from home with the kids.
my wife works 60+ hours a week and then frequently has to wine and dine till midnight.
I told her I wasnt leaving my kids and if she wanted to leave to go. well she did.
she wants to move back in next month...I would be on the couch of course because i am a gentleman. She legally can do this I know.
Its funny she has spent more time with the kids in the last 2 weeks than the last 3 years..prob guilt.
Any insight would be great. thanks