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HI All,
I am brand new to the site and alittle nervous to post but here we go... My husband and I have been married for 8 years with 2 kids 7 and 4 yrs old. We have been to marriage couselling on and off for about 5 years of our marriage. Everytime it gets better for a month then we go back into our habits again and fall out of love. I feel like he is my third child and I do not look at him as my partner (never really did). I am not attracted to him anymore because who wants to have sex with their child!
Anyway, I had threatened to leave before (2 years ago) but I caved because he said he did not want to leave the children. Nothing about leaving me. We have not had sex in 2 weeks (we have gone a month before). I don't even have the desire anymore. We are like roommates. I know people who have gone without if for years so a month is not too bad but I only do it because he pressures me to and also because I don't want him to be in a pissy mood and turn his bad mood onto me and the kids. He has never hit us but he had called me bad names in front of the kids and we fight infront of them all the time. I just don't know what to do, live in a loveless (me to him) marriage and suck it up until the kids are grown or really think about actually taking action. Any advise would be much appriciated!
Thanks for listen, K
I am brand new to the site and alittle nervous to post but here we go... My husband and I have been married for 8 years with 2 kids 7 and 4 yrs old. We have been to marriage couselling on and off for about 5 years of our marriage. Everytime it gets better for a month then we go back into our habits again and fall out of love. I feel like he is my third child and I do not look at him as my partner (never really did). I am not attracted to him anymore because who wants to have sex with their child!
Anyway, I had threatened to leave before (2 years ago) but I caved because he said he did not want to leave the children. Nothing about leaving me. We have not had sex in 2 weeks (we have gone a month before). I don't even have the desire anymore. We are like roommates. I know people who have gone without if for years so a month is not too bad but I only do it because he pressures me to and also because I don't want him to be in a pissy mood and turn his bad mood onto me and the kids. He has never hit us but he had called me bad names in front of the kids and we fight infront of them all the time. I just don't know what to do, live in a loveless (me to him) marriage and suck it up until the kids are grown or really think about actually taking action. Any advise would be much appriciated!
Thanks for listen, K