Okay so my husband goes for two months to take care of his dad in another part of the country. I could not go this time. He comes back saying he was at the gym, started working out with some girl and now he is confused. He says we get a long very well, he likes that we don't fight too much, we don't insult each other when we do but he is confused. He has a crush on this girl. She knows he is married. She SAYS she does not want to be the cause of anyone's breakup but she keeps textin him and phoning him. I told him he needs to either stay here and stop that or go to her. I cannot stop him. He says its because she is so moody, one day she wants to see him , the next day she doesn't. He says they have been platonic....I don't know what else to say or do. If he wants to leave he should go...but I am on the verge of bannkruptcy, going to school, trying to do the best I can and now that he is back, I am soo distracted and crying and just don't know what else to say or do. Does anyone have any suggestions?