My wife and I had our son 2 years ago shortly before we got married. Things were always great, never argued, but I got comfortable. I stayed in my office most of the time not going to work much, not spending time with her and my son and just being absent in general. She gave me a couple of warnings but I didn't listen. Fast forward to last week. She said she wanted space, not separation, not divorce. Things were improving until about thursadya when we had a big fight because I constantly try to have deep conversations. Mostly because I dont fully understand what she means by space. I've improved myself in many ways in the process, got a raise at work, signed up for electrician school, started keeping the house clean. All she cares about is herself though, which scares me because of our son. How do I undo the damage I did during the week? I'm so confused.