I am in need of some help in a relationship.
I have been seeing someone for 2.5 months now and as far as us getting along and having a great time together all is great.
History: She has been married divorce (6 years) w/child, me married divorced (3 years) with kids. We are same age 41.
What has happened over the course of the relationship is that we are coming up against a wall. For the past 3 weeks we have hit a point were she will come up with issues about complete commitment. These issues are fears of opening up heart completely and setting up for a heartbreak from me. This pattern has happened with her other relationships also.
I am sure this is from her past relationships (as well as worried about me going back to a long term ex.
What can one do to dispel or break down the walls in a relationship?
Is it something that can me overcome?
Is the relationship in jeopardy?
Is it a deeper issue with her or me?
I am committed to her and the relationship and love and trust her completely. Just lost a little bit at the moment at what to do.
I have been seeing someone for 2.5 months now and as far as us getting along and having a great time together all is great.
History: She has been married divorce (6 years) w/child, me married divorced (3 years) with kids. We are same age 41.
What has happened over the course of the relationship is that we are coming up against a wall. For the past 3 weeks we have hit a point were she will come up with issues about complete commitment. These issues are fears of opening up heart completely and setting up for a heartbreak from me. This pattern has happened with her other relationships also.
I am sure this is from her past relationships (as well as worried about me going back to a long term ex.
What can one do to dispel or break down the walls in a relationship?
Is it something that can me overcome?
Is the relationship in jeopardy?
Is it a deeper issue with her or me?
I am committed to her and the relationship and love and trust her completely. Just lost a little bit at the moment at what to do.