Hello everyone. I found this site after searching for a group that I could talk to who would understand what I was going through. I recently found out my husband of 15 years had an affair while on deployment and the woman claims she is pregnant. She never showed proof, even after I asked for it. She’s supposedly had an abortion now. My husband first wanted to leave me and our 2 daughters, ages 13 and 11, for this woman and their “child”. A week later, he calls me back crying saying that he wants to come home. He’s never done anything like this. We are a very church going family, and he was so into his Catholic faith that he was darn near priestly! This affair came out of nowhere and shocked me to my core. I would have rather had a family member die than to hear what he told me. It’s been a month and some change since this revelation. He wants to work on our marriage, but I don’t know if I can get past this. She was a younger woman and that has really messed with my brain. I feel like every time he’s quiet, he’s thinking of her, or every love song on the radio, he’s thinking of her. I do love him, but I just don’t know if I can ever trust him again. Please help!! Has anyone went through a similar situation?