I came clean to my husband 3 months ago about inappropriate relationships I'd had with other men online.
After a few emotional days, he told me he forgives me and that he didn't want to talk about it anymore. He didn't want any of our friends or family to find out.
since then, especially recently I wonder if he is still hurting. But don't know how to approach the subject. Is it possible that he has actually forgiven me and moved on? I know I am still trying to forgive myself for doing that to him. He doesn't talk about it, I have become totally transparent to him giving him all my passwords and letting him go through my phone and computer account whenever he wants.
Is this classic rug sweeping? or are we actually on a healthy path??
After a few emotional days, he told me he forgives me and that he didn't want to talk about it anymore. He didn't want any of our friends or family to find out.
since then, especially recently I wonder if he is still hurting. But don't know how to approach the subject. Is it possible that he has actually forgiven me and moved on? I know I am still trying to forgive myself for doing that to him. He doesn't talk about it, I have become totally transparent to him giving him all my passwords and letting him go through my phone and computer account whenever he wants.
Is this classic rug sweeping? or are we actually on a healthy path??