My husband and I have 4 kids, 2 his 2 mine. We have 50% custody of his 2 and this morning their mother called to say the 10 year old wants to only live with her and see dad every other weekend. She also said the 6 year old wants to stay on our current 50% schedule of Friday to Friday.
My husband is distraught and sad. He gives them so much love and attention it is amazing. He is my idea of what a daddy should be.
He has not spoke to his daughter about it but doesn't know what to say?
He cried (he never cries!) he is now telling me he wants his girls happy and will let them be where they want to be.
I honestly don't know what to do in this situation? My husbands depressed and the kids can see it but he is not talking to his 10 year old instead he is ignoring it. He said he can't break down in front of her... I don't think avoiding the conversation is good.
Should my husband have a conversation with the 10 year old or should he ignore it and let her do what she wants?
I know my opinion but I need outside help?
Thank you in advance.
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My husband is distraught and sad. He gives them so much love and attention it is amazing. He is my idea of what a daddy should be.
He has not spoke to his daughter about it but doesn't know what to say?
He cried (he never cries!) he is now telling me he wants his girls happy and will let them be where they want to be.
I honestly don't know what to do in this situation? My husbands depressed and the kids can see it but he is not talking to his 10 year old instead he is ignoring it. He said he can't break down in front of her... I don't think avoiding the conversation is good.
Should my husband have a conversation with the 10 year old or should he ignore it and let her do what she wants?
I know my opinion but I need outside help?
Thank you in advance.
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