Things are back to normal, except I feel emotionally estranged. Have to tell one more story. It's like an unending joke:I think when she set this up originally she knew she was going to invite her friends...at this point is when the negotiations should have commenced...you both should have figured out how the living arrangement, meals and entertainment would would work out, to ensure that your needs were met as much as her needs. and if anyone does any sudden changes to the set agreement without the other one knowing about it then that spouse has the right to do what you did.
question what happen when you got back home?
When we got off the plane, we were all exhausted and wanted to go straight home. My wife wanted to take her friends home. We live on the way to their house which is another 20 minutes away. She privately agreed to let me out first (She was driving) THEY flat out lied and claimed their place was on the way, and gave directions so I bowed out gracefully to avoid my wife's wrath. It was the final indignity.