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We have been married for over 23 years and 2 wonderful children, 1 drunken night 5 years ago I asked my wife for anal sex and we attempted it - WRONG!
Since then our sex life has dropped from once per month to once every 2/3 months.
6 weeks ago there has been a strain on our marriage and we sat down to talk and I mentioned that I would like to try anal sex and that she had FULL control - NO CHANCE was the reply, but she is insistent that we have vaginal sex (once every couple of months).
Since then our relationship is none existent with no touching as she feels that "leads me on". She wants me to guarantee that I will be faithful (which I have been for the past 23 years).
I now feel that one night 5 years ago is ruining our lives and marriage.
I try talking to her about anal sex and she then asks if I am gay- I do not know what to do and I am considering leaving after 23 years, but I do not want to through it all away.
Any suggestions...
Since then our sex life has dropped from once per month to once every 2/3 months.
6 weeks ago there has been a strain on our marriage and we sat down to talk and I mentioned that I would like to try anal sex and that she had FULL control - NO CHANCE was the reply, but she is insistent that we have vaginal sex (once every couple of months).
Since then our relationship is none existent with no touching as she feels that "leads me on". She wants me to guarantee that I will be faithful (which I have been for the past 23 years).
I now feel that one night 5 years ago is ruining our lives and marriage.
I try talking to her about anal sex and she then asks if I am gay- I do not know what to do and I am considering leaving after 23 years, but I do not want to through it all away.
Any suggestions...