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  1. One Step Forward, Two Steps Back

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone, I'm not really sure what's important for people to know to help me out. Some background: My husband and I are both 25. We've been married 4 years, but we've been together 5-6 years. Both of us suffer from mental illness and attachment issues from childhood trauma. We see the same...
  2. Married too young and now I want my life back?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband and I fell in love at 16, proposed at 17 and were married at 19. We're 22 now. We have been together a total of 6 years from the start. While I've been mostly happy these 6 years with some pretty major issues with his anxiety (No job, dropped out of high school, etc) but he's working...
  3. Obesity, How Much Can I Help?

    General Relationship Discussion
    This weekend my wife made an obesity joke after hearing a health/obesity commercial on the radio, saying in jest that we were an obese family. It was super awkward. She had just confided in me her current weight and how unhappy she was. Out of curiosity I looked up her BMI and found that my wife...
  4. Possible signs that he could cheat? Please help!

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi everybody, I have no idea where to start but here it is.... We are a month shy of being together for a year and life as a couple moved seriously fast. We had sex on the first night, he told me he loved me the night he asked me out just a few days after meeting. We moved in together only 2...
  5. Do you ever fantasize about being single?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Like if you get into a huge argument with your spouse, you're feeling depressed, or just having fun thinking of the idea, have you ever fantasized about being single and being by yourself and just being alone? Or how your life would be if you married someone else, etc. Just interested to see...
  6. Engaged and having doubts about future

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello, Im new here so sorry for immediately going into my problems. I have a problem that maybe someone here can shed some light on. I have been with my girlfriend now fiance for a little over four years.Im 27 now and so is she. We get along in every way except one, our sex life has been weird...
  7. She threatens divorce. Do I give in or try to fix this?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    ***LONG POST, BUT I WOULD APPRECIATE ANY ADVICE FROM SOMEONE WHO READS IT THROUGH*** So, I am really not sure where to go from here. My wife and me got married young and have been married now for about five and a half years. Things were great when we were dating and during the first year or two...
  8. we want to marry but his family ....

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hii everybody i know this sound like some messed up lovestory but this is what is happening in my life right now :( So i am a 22 year old black Woman that was working in a company as an assistant.. so when i first met my boss we felt from top to toe in love with each other but we would never...
  9. My wife doesnt want to be with me anymore.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm 22 years old my wife is 20. we've been married for a year and have a 7 month old son. I admit thoughout our marriage i haven't treated her the best. Lately I've been going out with friends and spending more money than needed to be spent. Our problems started whe she was pregnant and i left...
  10. Sexless marriage: 24-years-old and married barely a year

    Sex in Marriage
    So, like many people on here, I am in what I consider a sexless marriage. To get started, forget about her cheating, just trust me, it isn't happening. Love and honesty aren't issues. My wife and I have been married barely a year. We've been together for about 2.5 years. We met at 21 and both...
  11. Young and Wondering

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My first time ever positing in any type of forum. ok quick story. Early twenties, together for 7 years since 15 years old, married 3, 2 sons at age 21. I've been having an on and off affair for the past year. I am tired of hiding, secrets, im lonely and want to make the call. I want to...
  12. advice needed!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    my husband and i met in june last year both studying youth work, he was doing it because he wanted to become a pastor. he also mentioned that he had a 6 year old son whom he has every weekend. i fell head over heels and we got married on 19th december and started living with his parents. im very...
  13. Is he mean or am I just sensitive?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, my name is Sara. My husband and I have been together since 2005. I was only 17 when we married. I'm now 21. Our relationship is good then again maybe not. He's a great guy... he works hard... really hard, he's always stressing about money when we're actually doing pretty great for...
  14. what am Im doing here ???

    General Relationship Discussion
    hello. my name is Charliemoe and this is my first time posting anything on this site since i became a memeber . i guess im still stuck on the fact that i am actually looking for advice on my own relationship. Me and My husban been married for 4 years *Young,Successful,& InLove* i say - after 4...
  15. Life is just passing me by.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Hey everybody, I really think I just need to vent. I am 19 years old. I am married...not only married but technically still a newlywed. I have been married for eight months. I was only with my husband for seven months before the big I do's. As I sit in my room...yes my room not my house, not...
  16. Husband on camping trip with 2 women

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband is 27, the women are 21 and 26. He is going on the trip (in the alaska wilderness) just the three of them for 6 days because his work told him to. He's the only married one. I personally think it's like hanging a big cookie in front of him. Last year his work had 1 sex assault and 1...
  17. Unsure of what to do...

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now, and we dated for some time before that (a few years), but now she feels as though we married too young, or at least she did. I recently returned home from a TDY (for non military is like a business trip) that was over a month long. Last...
  18. One for the other? Help..

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    (not a marriage problem but i'm still losing sleep) Hi, I'm 18 years old, and for the past 5 (yes, FIVE) years I've been with one guy. He's really sweet, really caring and has always been there for me. For the past two years, however, there's been a sudden change in him. Lately, he hasn't been...
  19. In Need Of Advice...

    Sex in Marriage
    I'm not entirely sure that I feel 100% comfortable 'typing' about this subject. But, alas, I have no one I feel I can confide in about this issue. My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years, and we have one daughter who is nearing 7 months old. We had sort of a whirlwind romance...
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