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  1. wife cheated not sure what to do our how to handle this

    Coping with Infidelity
    So found out my wife was cheating on me. I suspected her about a year ago. she was texting another guy and deleting all the messages and the call history when I asked her what she was doing she told me the guy contacted her on fb and told her I was cheating on her with his ex wife this guy...
  2. I had to find out the truth

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi new to the forum, found it searching for self help after finding out about my wifes affair. I initially discovered it after finding she was still logged into FB. After reading through a transcript I discover she had been seeing someone who was in a group of friends she went out with . This...
  3. Wife of 13 years cheated w/ my best friend

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok....i have been trying to cope with this for about 3 weeks now... Short background....I have been suspicous of a change in my wife's mood and temperment over the past couple of years. I finally let it get to me and confronted her and after a short time she admitted she had sex with MY BEST...
  4. New Username, Same Old Thread (Wife Cheated)

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been lurking for a couple months (since I discovered my wife's EA+PA affair), and figured it was time I shared my story. I'll try and keep it short. Married for 6, together for 11, toddler son. We had been in a rut, typical "focus on the child, while ignoring the marriage" stuff, with...
  5. Considering Divorce & I need an HO from 3rd party

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Glad I had stumbled upon this little gem of a site. Now to the story. Met my wife right after HS though a friend. We have had our ups and downs but always stuck together. By year 3 we decided to move in together and got engaged by year 4 but in the same year her mother passed and it threw...
  6. My wife cheated, I forgave her, but she won't move on

    Coping with Infidelity
    I just recently discovered my wife had an affair for two years. I found out about the affair when I looked tru her email and found out she was pregnant with the OM's child. I confronted her and she said she was terrified. I had told her on the phone that it was over and she cried. 10 minutes...
  7. Relationship Infidelity and Coping

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am new to this is and have just registered. I read a couple of posts now, and everyone seems to have this hip acronym language that I am not going to learn just to make a post. So recently my wife told me that she cheated on me. Actually she told me she had a sexual encounter, but that she...
  8. Forever wearing the Scarlett Letter

    Coping with Infidelity
    I cheated on my husband of 7 years, in our own home. We separated. Lost our house. He filed for divorce. He still came around cause we have a son. So the 3 of us went out together often to keep my son happy, he was 3 at the time. One day i asked if he could ever forgive me. So he tried. We were...