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  1. Wife had and affair with co-worker

    Coping with Infidelity
    I recently found out few weeks ago that my wife had an affair with her co-worker while we were dating. We have been married for a year and the affair happened around 6-7 months before we got married. My wife told about this herself as she was suffering from the guilt and didn't want to hide it...
  2. Wife thinks about other men during sex

    Sex in Marriage
    Ladies...is it normal to fantasize of other men during sex with your husband? We have been married since college (30 years). About 15 years ago my wife had a 3-4 month affair. Unwisely, I wanted to know all the details of their encounters and she shared with me that the sex and her orgasms were...
  3. Wife "has no desire" for sex after her affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    We are currently almost 3 months post Dday. It's been a tough period. I was caught completely off guard when confronted with overwhelming evidence. She eventually confessed and we agreed to work on things. 3 weeks later something didn't feel right so i hired a PI and caught her walking out of...
  4. Getting over Wife's Infidelity

    Coping with Infidelity
    It has been four months since D-Day. I (41M) am really not over my wife’s (40F) infidelity. I want to be, but I am not. It has been the most excruciating, traumatic event of my life to date. The affair started during a really tough time for her and I. I had suffered some serious professional...
  5. Asking wife about Ex

    Sex in Marriage
    OK Guys, my first post, so please be gentle. (and if it's in the wrong place, Admin feel free to move it) Almost 20 years ago my wife had an affair (in fact she left me and moved in with the guy) we made up, she left him and we've been together ever since. We never, ever discussed it. Put it...
  6. Ways to help wife emotionally reattach? (newbie)

    Coping with Infidelity
    2 months ago I discovered my wife's affair. It began as an emotional affair and progressed to sexual. By happenstance I discovered it relatively early (6mo into affair, 1 week into sexual). My wife has ended this affair with the OM, but due to occupation still must interact with him...
  7. where to start?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Don't know where to start this story. Married 25 years, and in hindsight, admittedly overly focused on responsibilities, raising children, to the detriment of "us". So, not a perfect marriage, but probably average or better. Slapped into reality two years ago by wife's forced admission of her...
  8. It's been 20 years, should I just let it go?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry long post...I'm know in my heart that I'm most likely being irrational and stupid. My wife and I have been married over 23 yrs, together for over 25 yrs. Like most marriages we've had our ups and downs. However, I think our ups greatly surpasses our downs. We have 4 children together...
  9. should I divorce my wife?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Here is some of my story. Three years ago I kept watching how my wife was acting around my married brother. I ask my wife was something going on, at first she said no then she confessed that she had an affair for over a year. My heart was broken. However my first words were we can work this out...
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