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  1. Am I wasting my time

    General Relationship Discussion
    We've been married just under a year. I am aware that I can be insecure and needy. I want the relationship to work. I think she does too. But I am not sure she wants more than a roommate and provider. We fight using hurtful words a bunch but seem to come back to a good place within 24 hours...
  2. Endless cycle of wifes affair.. please read need input

    The Men's Clubhouse
    So i want to try and be as simple as possible to start and any questions i can answer along the way. For atleast almost two yearrs my wife has carried on an affair without truly hiding it. i know all about it and doesnt do anything to hide it now for atleast a year. she says i was to distant...
  3. I am a lying husband and I need help!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My W and I have only been married for about 6 months but have been together for about 3 years. Our problems have been going on right from the beginning. At the start of our relationship she said, "All I want is honesty and trust." And I said I could do that. Well then I moved 8 hours away to be...
  4. Sexually not compatible-HELP

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been married for 8 years but have been together for 11 years. I'm 35 and my husband will be 44 this month. Well, when he and I first met we had a great sex life. Now that he has gotten older it seems as if he does not care if we have sex or not. I've heard that woman...
  5. Divorce or not?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, We are married 10 years ago and I adopted her 11 year old daughter which was fine. She is 21 now and on her own. The problem is things have fallen apart for years, up and down. I lost my job 6 weeks ago, i am getting unemployment but she has 2 jobs and stays mad at me until the last few...