weight gain

I initially came here to observe only. I was searching for advice through other peoples posts for something I’m struggling with. Then I figured, what the heck, so here it goes. my concern is my husbands health- physically and mentally and the affects it’s having on our relationship. I’ve read a...

Hi everyone. I've been married 8 months, with my husband for 3 1/2 years, I'm 33, he's 36. I love my husband. He's an amazing man. Here's the problem...I don't like the way his face looks anymore. To be blunt, his face has gotten fat. He always had a small chin and the extra pounds have made...

In the last couple years I have gained 20lbs and and because of the insecurity its created, my husband isn't satisfied with our sex life . I use to be confident and now I avoid him seeing me naked with the lights on . For me this stems from knowing he looks at porn etc and I just can't compete...

Hello! I wish I had found this site awhile ago. Then again, the pain from an unfaithful spouse doesn't just go away, so I'm glad I found you all now. My D-Day was May 16, 2012. He 'ended' the affair (in other words, went underground.) D-Day #2 was May 21, 2012. Agreed to talk to him on May...

I've posted before about my marital issues. Unfortunately little, if anything has changed. We are still in counseling 1x per month. We are as distant emotionally as we have ever been. Sex is complicated. Does he want sex? It seems so, since he complained of not getting it often enough the last...

This is really difficult to talk about. I can't confide in my family or friends b/c they will judge my husband. We have been married 12 yrs. I have gained 50 lbs since having our child. I am working on getting it off. I am about 30lbs overweight. My husband, after much prodding, confessed...

My husband and I have been together for seven years. In the first 3 years of our relationship we always had a great sex life. We had sex so much, sometimes I would get tired of having sex, but I loved it because I knew he was attracted to me and his eyes were only for me. After that I slowly...

Ladies/Wives maybe you can help me get my mind around a wife of 8.5 years gaining 30lbs in all the wrong places (belly). My wife, two years older than me (32), had always been short and petite, but around the 4 year mark of our relationship, the weight gained started. I'm not trying to be...