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  1. Cheating with a girl Half His Age

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am Totallysad, and I first wrote a post here in 2015 sharing my experiences after a 16 year marriage with my husband in which I went through numerous instances of finding him cheating on me, physical abuse and emotional trauma. Every single response to my post asked me to seek counselling for...
  2. Seriously Need Advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'll start from the beginning. I met my husband at 16, had a kid and got married at 19. He has never treated me good but I was infatuated with him when we were younger. When I say he hasn't treated me good, I mean he degrades me and has been physically violent before, not to mention he drinks...
  3. My husband's temper and depression

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My husband and I have been married for 7 years, together for 13. We have an amazing two year old daughter. He has always had a temper. Anger is an issue in his family and he grew up with it. He has made great strides in improving how he deals with situations. But, over the past two years...
  4. Have to decide if I should press charges against my son for abuse

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I have a 16 yo son, "typical," and a 13 yo with atypical Autism. I am divorced since Jan '12, and their dad has primary custody. (I was depressed/over-medicated/financially not able to fight for custody) Our divorce was caused in large part in that ex and I had polar opposite views on how to...
  5. Not sure what to do about destructive, angry and explosive wife

    The Men's Clubhouse
    When i married my wife 2 years ago after dating and living together for around 2 years. I believed she was almost perfect, like everything just fell into place when we were together, in 2 years of living together we never had more than a minor snapping at each other. However shortly after the...
  6. My New (alcoholic) husband crossed the line and violently attacked me

    Relationships and Addiction
    This is my 1st post on this site. Here is my background. I was with my ex-h for 8 years. During that time he was arrested 6 different times spending nearly 2 yrs total in jail for stealing to support his meth habit. I finally gave up on him after his last arrest last January (2012). I loved...
  7. Is it tolerable that women get violent?

    General Relationship Discussion
    A bit of a sensitive subject, I know (I like that). Thing is: I was out jogging the other day and found a couple fighting on an empty side-road out there. Actually, she was really hard beating down on him, literally like a heavy weight champion, and he was ducked down, hands in front of his...
  8. totally indecisive

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I don't really know where to start with this, so I guess I'll do my best to provide a concise background first. my husband (let's call him Joe) and i first met about 7 years ago, working together. we were just pals, since he was married at the time and I had other interests (I wasn't yet 21...