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  1. Am I just crazy?! Or does my husband not appreciate me?

    General Relationship Discussion
    So, my husband and I have been together for 7 years, married 3 ish. Our relationship has been based upon his infidelity and lack of communication. He isn't romantic, hes lazy, ad only wants to do what he wants to do with no concern over anyone else. He was never like this before. About a year...
  2. Husband is basically just my roommate

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello all, I've been struggling with this for a while, and I found this site, so I'm hoping to get some help here. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now. We have one child (4yo), a house, animals, etc. The problem is that, essentially, I feel like my husband is just a roommate...
  3. Unhappily Married Nine Years

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Facts: • My wife and I have been married for almost 10 years now – physically in good shape and attractive people in our thirties. • We have three, young children. • I have always worked and provided for all needs of our family, while my wife takes care of kids and home. • We are very...
  4. Recently Married and Feeling Unhappy

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I dated for almost five years before getting married back in March of this year. I love my husband more than I can put into words and I am so thankful for him. Although I cannot seem to figure out why I've been feeling so unhappy since we said our "I Do's". Since we got married...
  5. How to take the plunge?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been married for 4 years. He is 39 and I am 28.. I am beginning to question whether I want to get a divorce. I am feeling extremely unhappy in our relationship, but I fear his reaction and the backlash from our families. I know my husband loves me, but we have absolutely...
  6. Wondering...Am I Selfish?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
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  7. What do I do?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I’ll try to keep this short as this is a 13 years saga in the making and to cover it all would be like reading War and Peace. Our problems are the same as everyone else’s just with a twist. The twist doesn’t matter, the long and short of is I want to leave my wife but there are 2 things...
  8. Living with him while going through divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Last time I was on here was about 2 or 3 weeks ago and I was a complete mess. He told me he was leaving and i found out so many thing that he had done - cheated, lied.. everything. I was a wreck, I didnt want any part of the divorce and now.. I have finally gotten to the angry stage and I want...
  9. What's best for the child - separate or stay together

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    My wife and I are having major problems (which I won't get into) and we don't think we can live together. We have a 2-month old daughter. The question is this: for our daughter's sake, is it better for us to stay together in a marriage we are both unhappy with so that our daughter has a family...
  10. Newly married and unhappy

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone, I apologise if this is long and for some, quite boring, but I really need to 'talk' to someone about my feelings before it is too late...whether that's online or in person. Hopefully some of you will be able to help! I have been with my husband for 4 and a 1/2 years but we've only...
  11. Loyal But Unhappy Husband

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok, so I'll try keep this as short as possible (but not likely). I married my wife last year after being together for 3 years. We are only 8 months into the marriage and are having a very rocky beginning. To bring you up to speed, she is a foreign national. We were engaged in 2011 but because of...
  12. I could really need a little help. I am so confused...

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, This is my first time on this site so this may be a long one. My husband and I have been married for 10 years. I am 31 no kids. Right after we got married he told me that he wouldn't stop talking to his ex. ( The one right before me.) Cause he hurt her and she needed closure. 10 years...
  13. Want to make things better

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am married for 9 years and things were always going well. We had our ups and downs but managed to work through them. We have been expats for 8 years and moved 11 times, had two great kids (unplanned that were financial stressful) The past year things turned not so good. My husband had a...
  14. Some advice needed.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi there folks, I need some advice and I hope that someone will be able to help me with my problem... Now before I continue I must point out that the topics I am going to discuss with you I have already discussed with my wife, who merely shrugs off my feelings or dismisses them as "silly"...
  15. So lost!!! Help, im losing my wife!!

    Sex in Marriage
    I guess I will start from the beginning. My wife and I have been married for 4 years, together 12, and known each other 25. And we are only thirty. We were each others first puppy love crush :) Last year my company relocated me and my family to California. I was working 6 days a week...
  16. I am a punching bag

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have come on here posting snippets of my relationship issues. I don't think I have ever posted my whole story so here she goes. I was married for 9 years to an abusive man. Psychopath more-so. As long as he was 100% in control, he was fine. He was physically abusive to the kids and...
  17. Should I separate? So lost and need some objective advice!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I have been married for 12 years and have two children, 9 and 6. I have always had a very up and down relationship with my husband. There was always passion but also intense fighting and financial issues. We have lost our home and continue to have financial struggles. We both work and are...
  18. Newly Wed with Problems

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for 10 months. Things with my wife have gotten very complicated over this time. Over the past 2 months, we have had several talks about where our marriage is. In a few of these talks, divorce has been mentioned. In the last talk, my wife wanted to put a time limit of on how...
  19. Need help! Extremely jealous and angry wife.

    General Relationship Discussion
    When me and my wife first began dating it was a long distance relationship as I was in the military and over 8 hours away. We talked on the phone almost every night that we could. I got to see her when I came home but we spent much more time away than in person. We dated for two years until I...
  20. Trying to see what went wrong

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Ok. I am currently seperated from my husband if I can even call him that. I did everything he wanted. I cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids, gave him sex whenever he wanted for 16 years and here we are now. No matter what I do he still acts like a jerk. He is a horrible father, he doesn't...
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