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  1. New person here...

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi, new to this site. I’ve been unhappy in my 29 yr(!) marriage for some time (at least 5 yrs). I can’t seem to decide to end it. And now, especially with the pandemic, it seems impossible.
  2. Am I a piece of ****

    General Relationship Discussion
    First: I can't believe I am posting anything like this for all to see but I figure someone has to be in a similar situation. Here it goes. About me: I am 39 years old live in Dallas and I have been married to my wife for 14 years. She is 32 years old and we have a beautiful daughter who is...
  3. No Love Left

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married for 22 years. I never worked for the first 18 years and he didn't let me spend any money. What took place was if I bought something for myself, he would always get angry and say, "what did you buy that for? You didn't need that, did you? You're gonna pay me back for that...
  4. I dream of being happily divorced

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I posted this in the wrong forum so I am reposting it here to hopefully get some advice. Please excuse my typing and spelling. I dont know what to do. I keep waiting for the right time or for something to happen...
  5. How to leave? its all such a mess..

    General Relationship Discussion
    I dont know what to do. I keep waiting for the right time or for something to happen that might some how make this situation easier but i know im just procrastinating because this thing is too hard and while i do my life is slipping away, I will turn 37 next year and i feel as though i have been...
  6. Sexless After One Year- ED, Low T, & Low Libido

    Sex in Marriage
    My first post and I'm going all in....(sorry it's long) I've been married to my hubs for 15 months (I'm 30, he's 34). Before we got engaged he lost his job, but proposed a couple of months after the job loss. We figured he would be back on his feet in no time since he's very qualified in his...
  7. Tired, Scared, Confused & Depressed!!!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Good Afternoon, I'm new to this forum, but I decided to register because I don't really have anyone that I can talk to about my feelings. I have been married now for 9 years. We have one child together and I have a son from my younger years. Since we have been married our life has been a...
  8. Looking for sanity

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm brand new here and presently going through a separation towards divorce. I've been married for 21 years this August. My wife initiated the legal separation a couple months ago, even though we've been apart off and on over the last five years.....she's been on the fence.....I've tried...
  9. Discovered my wife's chat/emails (while pregnant)

    Coping with Infidelity
    Arranged: July 2010 Engaged: Aug 2010 Married: Feb 2011 Baby Girl: Dec 2011 Wife's contact with old bf's: Before July 2010 (that she told me) ------------------------ Nov 2009 April 2010 May 2010 June 2010 After July 2010 (Getting arranged) --------------------- Aug 2010 Sept 2010 Nov 2010...
  10. What was the hardest part of your unhappy marriage to get through

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello! I have read many threads on this forum about people who have suffered infidelity from their partners. Others have endured lack of respect and bad treatment. For me the hardest thing was to find myself after a few years of marriage stuck in a sexless and loveless marriage. Living with...
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