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I just joined this site to vent. Perhaps to find some answers. Or support. Or… I don’t know. Maybe to be told I’m a jerk. I was pretty closed off the first 3 years of our marriage. Like a lot of couples we started off by having sex a few times a week, which diminished over the years. During...

A month and a half ago my wife of 4 years (together 6 years) told me “I love you but I’m not in love with you”, and revealed she had a boyfriend she’d been dating for 2 months whom she was in love with. She said she hadn’t been in love with me for about a year and a half. I couldn’t believe...

I feel trapped in a very tricky and confusing situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and our relationship feels like it's emotionally dead. I feel like we have very little in common even though technically we do. We both have the same values essentially and our chosen career...