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  1. Emotional Affair 14 months in and trouble

    Coping with Infidelity
    I discovered my wife's EA 14 months ago. Facebook chats with a former crush from childhood with a serious long term illness . Nothing physical but how she loved him and "we will have our chance." I finally got a gut filling and read her phone messages. I was devestated, our marriage wasn't...
  2. I know the truth but it hurts all the same

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I want to tell my story because honestly I need to get it out, I have no true confidants and I’m not so good holding this type of emotion and I know that I will be called stupid and many will tell me that I should expect it but please believe me; I didn’t not know I will be this way, I...
  3. Would you tell your kids?

    Coping with Infidelity
    So after 13 years of marriage, I found out my stbx husband was having an affair (again) and this time he was done and wanted to move on. We ended up staying in the same house though for a year, living separately. Just recently we finally moved to another state. My kids are 9 and 12. They...
  4. Does your ex re-write history?

    Life After Divorce
    So the saga continues as I watch my ex-wife rewrite history...I just went from being a “good father for the girls” to “world’s greatest deadbeat dad.” (whaaaaaaaaa?????) So…questions… How did they do it? How did it make your feel? When did it stop? Did they ever figure out they did it? Were...
  5. Should the wounds be reopened?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    After 26 years we are different - or are we just ignoring each other? We have decided to end our marriage. There is no longer the energy to make the effort from either of us. Do I fully express what I feel and why I think we have arrived here? - OR - Do I focus on the divorce and let the past...
  6. Best Polygraph Examiner's

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am looking for information on what to look for in regards to finding the best Polygraph Examiners? I know that some are better than others, some have better credentials or certified. I had my husband take one 25 yrs. ago and several questions came back, non-conclusive. These were the most...
  7. progressive neurological disorder...how/when to tell date

    General Relationship Discussion
    I was diagnosed with spinocerebellera ataxia a couple years ago. It's not so noticeable yet...but will be down the road. It's a pretty serious disorder, no cure or treatment. When it begins it affects mostly your balance, hand-eye-coordination, speech...but progresses into affecting almost...
  8. Do They Ever Tell the WHOLE Truth?

    Coping with Infidelity
    In my situation, I have been dealing with over 7 months of "trickle truth". The most recent disclosures being the worst of them all...the "offenses" began coming out 7 months ago (by me confronting him with evidence) beginning with secretive "just friends" interactions with a co-worker and ended...
  9. I just want to escape!

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I feel like I want to run far, far away and hide at the same time that I want to have a monstrous primal scream!! My junior in college daughter is from my abusive first marriage. I've been married to my second husband for over 13 years. He has raised her since she was 6. He's a very strong...
  10. My wife thinks I'm cheating when I'm not

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My wife has been cheated on in previous relationships...men sneaking around behind her back. They have scarred her. Even though we have been together almost 5 years and married for three of those years, she is still always checking up on me and accusing me of cheating or doing things behind...
  11. How to get the Truth out of Man...

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband says he's happy with us, but suddenly never wants sex any more. He swears there is nothing wrong, it's just him, etc. I don't suspect any other women but he does look at porn on the internet. I am overweight, but have been since we met three years ago. He swears it's not the...
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