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  1. Trust... Is it the little things?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone, Just googled a place to talk about things and this was the first site to pop up so I thought I would give this a go to see if it will help. Me and my wife have been married for 4 years (almost exactly) and have been together for 8 years. Back in 2014 we had a little incident... or...
  2. Husband gave away almost $1400 in a week

    The Ladies' Lounge
    So I have an issue with my husband. Ok so he was furloughed from his job so he was scheduled to receive unemployment. I keep asking did he get his card yet that contained it...of course his answer was no until he said he had to get his mail from his mom. So he got his mail and got the card...
  3. Together 11 years, married for 6 months - possible divorce

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, I’ve always read stories on dating and marriage forums and I never thought I’d be posting about my own issues. I’m sort of at a loss for what I think is going on in our marriage and wanted to hear your opinions and thoughts. We’ve been together for a long time (I’m 29 and she’s...
  4. What would you do in this situation?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some help with a situation and want people's unbiased opinions. My husband and I are in a long distance marriage currently but visit each other fairly often, usually once a week. Something happened the other day and he is so furious with me that he is threatening divorce and I don't know...
  5. How to get him to trust me

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Me and husband made the huge mistake of sharing our pasts with each other when we first got together. In addition, when we got together people got so jealous of our union that they ran to him and created all these lies about me to him (his so called friends). Well all that mess lodged in his...
  6. Is my husband addicted to Porn?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've had many issues with my husband - he's chased several women he works with over the years, but without success. He has been dealing with depression and anxiety his whole life, and attributes a lot of his behavior to that. Recently, we went through several months of marriage counseling after...
  7. Strip Club, Lies, Lost Trust - need advice and perspectie

    General Relationship Discussion
    The story that’s eating up my mental downtime. I’ll start with the nutshell version in first paragraph in case you don't want to read the entirely of details below, I appreciate any input! I am 45, husband is 2 years younger. We are on second marriages after being divorced about 7 and 10 years...
  8. Wife had affair with her boss

    Coping with Infidelity
    So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...
  9. What to do when there is no Trust/Emotional Connection?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been married 11 years, have 2 children together and own a business together. Every couple years or so in our marriage we have had a big shakeup, usually due to my husband being caught in lies or needing to find new work because he is a marginally functioning bi-polar person...
  10. Issues dealing with Partners past

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, Hope you are all doing well. I need a little advise if any has any on dealing with a situation, me and my girlfriend got together 7 months ago and have been really happy together, she's told me many times she's not felt like she does with me about anyone else and her friends have...
  11. Reconciliation / Texting / Work

    Reconciliation
    First a little back ground. My Ex and I are currently talking about getting back together. We were married for 24 years and have two great kids. The last two years of our marriage were very rocky. We both had multiple emotional affairs. I am not sure about physical affairs on her part (she...
  12. Is there any hope when trust is gone?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone, I married a man from Lebanon (age 26) and I am 35 female. I did a lot and invested a lot to bring him here. When he came things were rocky with adjusting to cultural differences as well as personality differences. I had been concerned with some of his actions and kicked him out in...
  13. Is it bad enough to divorce over?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I dated my wife for 6 years and have been married to her for 1. Recently I found out that she had messaged an acquaintance of hers 2 1/2 years into our relationship. I'm not exactly sure what the messages said but I found out by discovering semi-nude photos of this man on her email account. They...
  14. Rebuilding Confidence (and maybe trust)

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am a long-time lurker and used to be a semi-regular poster when I was married, but I have created a new account because I don't want my new posts associated with the old account. Because my how things have changed. I am now divorced and dating a new guy. He's 39. I'm 42. We have been together...
  15. Sex During Marriage Counseling?

    Coping with Infidelity
    No, not during the actual sessions with the counselor... :grin2: Hello. I just found this site, and I need some advice. :crying: My wife & I have been married for 22 years, together for 24. We're both in our mid-40's. Two weeks ago, I caught my wife (a phone addict) chatting online with...
  16. Anyone with experience rebuilding trust?

    General Relationship Discussion
    We've been married nearly 10 years and have three kids. And we don't trust each other. We don't trust each other to put each other - or the relationship - first. We don't trust each other to accept our faults. We always think the other is thinking terrible things about us. We have bucketloads of...
  17. He thinks I'm cheating but I'm not

    Coping with Infidelity
    This is my first post, so I'm not really sure how all of this works....here goes: My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. We got married very young and struggled through most of those years. My husband is a veteran, and then after he got out of the service he went back for his...
  18. If your spouse suggested cell phone GPS tracking

    General Relationship Discussion
    Trust is an important aspect of a conjugal relationship. But the sad reality is that affairs happen every day. Even the partner whom you felt you could really trust sometimes can be deceiving and have an affair. The are many reasons that can motivate people to have affairs, which are beyond...
  19. Broken Trust

    General Relationship Discussion
    So me and my husband have been together almost 10 years, married for 8. I just recently found out of his cheating about 7 months ago. It was more than 1 girl more than 1 time. I'm the type that alway said I would never stay with someone once they cheated on me but I now stand corrected. Once...
  20. I make ALL the money, she complains we are broke

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    First of all, I love my wife very much. She is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. BUT, not like this. Since we have been together (9 years), she has never held a job longer than a few months. When we first started dating she was fired from her job, after that she has had a few...
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