Search Results for ‘trust issues’

Hello. I have come to this forum to get relationship advice. My husband and I have been married for 14.5 years and we have just started marriage counseling about 2 months ago. There has been infidelity and a lot of lies, but I am trying to work on forgiving and moving forward. I am struggling...

Hi, This is my second marriage, we have been together for 11years 3 married. We entered the marriage after a lot of turmoil on both sides, 12 page prenup, no commingling of funds, a Trust document leaving me his home upon his death. He has many health issues, recovering sex addict, on medical...

Well here is my story, maybe you all can help. My husband tell me two weeks ago that he wants a divorce, but wants us to be civil. This is completely out of the blue to me, didn't see it coming at all. He saying he has never trusted me, asked me about events from 15-20 years ago, One was about...

My husband and I have been married for 6 years through arranged marriage. We have a son (5) and a daughter (2). He was never on Facebook, whereas I have been for some years now. He never seemed inclined and I didn't fuss over it. However, a few months back out of curiosity I searched his name on...

My husband and I have been married for 6 months, and we dated for 6 years before we got married. We have always been 100% faithful and honest with each other and he is my best friend. I want to give a little background but please know that I am not making excuses for anything I've done. For the...

I am new to this forum and would like to share my story for some advice from other people going through a similar situation. I am 29 and met H when I was 24 on vacation and we dated blissfully long distance (2 hours away) for about a year before I moved to his city. Once moved, I realised...

To start off we have been married 5 years together for 8 years, we have two kids 3&4 and have been happily married. We never fight and put all of our effort into raising our kids... unfortunately we have kind of disconnected somewhat during all of this. We both work opposite shifts so one of us...

Sorry in advance, I know it's long…ridiculously long…. Ok so I feel like I'm losing it here. I have been married to my husband for over 9 years now. We've been together for 12. We have two children together and I have two children from my first marriage. My divorce was pretty straightforward...

This bothers me... a lot.. I have expressed this to my husband and never get an answer. I try not to prod... really try not to.. but he simply leaves me without an answer. We have had our issues, me especially, this particular matter though seems to always bring us to the counselors table. We...

My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...

Is it over? thats the big question im asking myself. I just dont know if i can take another round of this. Background. her and i have been together since high school, over 15 years, married for almost 3 engaged for 3 before that or so, i'm being vague for the sake of anonymity. I joined the...

Folks please forgive me if I ramble a bit. I came to Tam as a lurker a couple of months ago before actually registering. I had such a strong suspicion that my wife was having an affair and I was desperate for help. I made several posts about this and received many helpful responses. I also...

Hi Ladies- I am new to the forums, and have come here hoping I can get some ideas and perspective. My husband and I have been married for 8 months and are really struggling with some trust issues. Years ago, his first girlfriend cheated on him numerous times, which I believe has led to his...

Hello If you're curious about my complete story you may read my past posts. It has been a long time since I've posted. Things have been very good for a while now (as good as we'll get I believe) but i can't understand what happened last night and I'm trying to. My wife has a habit of if she...

Cutting to the chase, my husband has a number of problems which equal one huge problem for me; 1.) Contacting, flirting and sexual reminiscing with numerous ex-girlfriends on-line. 2.) Visiting Chat-Sex rooms frequently for anonymous visual and audio sexual encounters. 3.) Skyping with women...

There is a man and a woman...They met online. They quickly fell in love with one another. About 6 months into their relationship she found out he was talking to other women..Not completely sure how many, maybe just one. She confronted him. He swore he loved her and he would never do it again...

So my husband (25) and I(27) have been married for 3 1/2 years now and have been together for 6 1/2 years and I love him to death. However, about a year in to our relationship we were at a party together and I made out with one of his friends in a different room. We then proceeded to go to the...