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  1. A little about myself

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello. I have come to this forum to get relationship advice. My husband and I have been married for 14.5 years and we have just started marriage counseling about 2 months ago. There has been infidelity and a lot of lies, but I am trying to work on forgiving and moving forward. I am struggling...
  2. 2nd Marriage

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi, This is my second marriage, we have been together for 11years 3 married. We entered the marriage after a lot of turmoil on both sides, 12 page prenup, no commingling of funds, a Trust document leaving me his home upon his death. He has many health issues, recovering sex addict, on medical...
  3. Confused

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well here is my story, maybe you all can help. My husband tell me two weeks ago that he wants a divorce, but wants us to be civil. This is completely out of the blue to me, didn't see it coming at all. He saying he has never trusted me, asked me about events from 15-20 years ago, One was about...
  4. Husband's kept his multiple FB profiles a secret and it has left me disturbed!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 6 years through arranged marriage. We have a son (5) and a daughter (2). He was never on Facebook, whereas I have been for some years now. He never seemed inclined and I didn't fuss over it. However, a few months back out of curiosity I searched his name on...
  5. I made a mistake

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 6 months, and we dated for 6 years before we got married. We have always been 100% faithful and honest with each other and he is my best friend. I want to give a little background but please know that I am not making excuses for anything I've done. For the...
  6. Newlywed & Separated

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am new to this forum and would like to share my story for some advice from other people going through a similar situation. I am 29 and met H when I was 24 on vacation and we dated blissfully long distance (2 hours away) for about a year before I moved to his city. Once moved, I realised...
  7. Happy to Marriage crisis in 2 weeks

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    To start off we have been married 5 years together for 8 years, we have two kids 3&4 and have been happily married. We never fight and put all of our effort into raising our kids... unfortunately we have kind of disconnected somewhat during all of this. We both work opposite shifts so one of us...
  8. Very insecure husband, Advice please!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Sorry in advance, I know it's long…ridiculously long…. Ok so I feel like I'm losing it here. I have been married to my husband for over 9 years now. We've been together for 12. We have two children together and I have two children from my first marriage. My divorce was pretty straightforward...
  9. Husband writes to prison women, Online dating sites

    General Relationship Discussion
    This bothers me... a lot.. I have expressed this to my husband and never get an answer. I try not to prod... really try not to.. but he simply leaves me without an answer. We have had our issues, me especially, this particular matter though seems to always bring us to the counselors table. We...
  10. 2 Years Dating, 5 Years Marriage with 2 Years Apart

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...
  11. Is It Over?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Is it over? thats the big question im asking myself. I just dont know if i can take another round of this. Background. her and i have been together since high school, over 15 years, married for almost 3 engaged for 3 before that or so, i'm being vague for the sake of anonymity. I joined the...
  12. This is a strange one.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Folks please forgive me if I ramble a bit. I came to Tam as a lurker a couple of months ago before actually registering. I had such a strong suspicion that my wife was having an affair and I was desperate for help. I made several posts about this and received many helpful responses. I also...
  13. He doesn't trust me.

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi Ladies- I am new to the forums, and have come here hoping I can get some ideas and perspective. My husband and I have been married for 8 months and are really struggling with some trust issues. Years ago, his first girlfriend cheated on him numerous times, which I believe has led to his...
  14. Do I have a right to be hurt?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello If you're curious about my complete story you may read my past posts. It has been a long time since I've posted. Things have been very good for a while now (as good as we'll get I believe) but i can't understand what happened last night and I'm trying to. My wife has a habit of if she...
  15. "Almost" Cheating...??

    General Relationship Discussion
    Cutting to the chase, my husband has a number of problems which equal one huge problem for me; 1.) Contacting, flirting and sexual reminiscing with numerous ex-girlfriends on-line. 2.) Visiting Chat-Sex rooms frequently for anonymous visual and audio sexual encounters. 3.) Skyping with women...
  16. Please give me honest advice..Husband cheating?.

    General Relationship Discussion
    There is a man and a woman...They met online. They quickly fell in love with one another. About 6 months into their relationship she found out he was talking to other women..Not completely sure how many, maybe just one. She confronted him. He swore he loved her and he would never do it again...
  17. I feel awful

    Coping with Infidelity
    So my husband (25) and I(27) have been married for 3 1/2 years now and have been together for 6 1/2 years and I love him to death. However, about a year in to our relationship we were at a party together and I made out with one of his friends in a different room. We then proceeded to go to the...
  18. Trust issues with husband

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hey ya'll...this is first time (forum virgin) and I am at my wits end with my husband. We have been married for 24 plus years and have 2 children, both grown (18 and 24)...I'm gonna cut to quick here and my current unresolved issue is whenever I tell something to my husband and I make sure he...
  19. Advice Needed!!! Desperately

    Coping with Infidelity
    we have been commonlaw for almost six years and engaged for almost two. We have a beautiful 1 1/2 year old daughter and we had a really bad year. He spent most of the year laid off and with the new baby and a new house, our finances weren't great. Then his best friend from childhood (lets call...
  20. Problems Not Going Away - Long Post

    General Relationship Discussion
    To fully explain, I need to start at the beginning, so I will go ahead and apologize for this being so lengthy. I had a long term boyfriend when I was in high school who was no good. He cheated, had a drug problem, would disappear for days at a time, and even hit me once. He was my first love...
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