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  1. Help! - want opinions.

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Help! - want opinions. FROM A WOMAN. WOULD LOVE A WOMANS OPINION! Where to begin.... PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINIONS. Me and my wife first got together Ten years ago. At the start of our relationship, I was a sumbag. I cheated, lied, did everything someone shouldn't within a relationship. I...
  2. Considering Trial Separation to Save Marriage - Has this worked for anyone?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
  3. Overwhelmed... To separate or not

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married for 10 years. I have three children under 10. My Husband lost his job in December. His unemployment just ended. I run a successful business from home running an at home daycare (watching 8 kids under 5). My job doesn't pay enough to pay all the bills, but does take care of...
  4. Day 6 of Trial Separation

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am even more lost now than I was when he said he didn't love me anymore. After I sat down one night and told him I was worried about him and how down he is all of the time. About the way he had been acting towards our children 1 and 5....ignores them and me. If they do anything they are...
  5. Trial Separation; how does it work??

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, My husband came to me last week and told me we should do a trial separation. Although we have had a very rough couple of years, it still hurts like hell. It's been a week now and I'm still in shock, I don't know what to do, how to act or what to expect. Let me backtrack and tell you the...
  6. Concerns about trial separation and how it affects my rights for child custody

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Need some advice here. I want to say that I love my wife with all of my heart and have been married for 6 years. Recently, we have been going through a rough patch and in her words "have grown apart", "I love you, but not in love with you" and "its not you, I (wife) has changed". So we agreed...
  7. What to do with "I don't know".

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I've been together with the love of my life for 10 years, married for 8, with a lovely 6 yo daughter. We have been lucky enough that I was able to support us all so my wife could stay home with the kiddo - a mutual agreement for the benefit of our daughter. Now that she is in elementary school...
  8. Trial Separation in the Same House

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I are planning to begin a trial separation, but don't have the resources to maintain two living spaces. I could go live with a friend, but then I'm moving out, and she stays in the house. I think this puts me at a big disadvantage in case this ends in divorce. So, I told her I...
  9. Trial Separation as a first step?? - please help!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone, I am new to these forums and don't know who else to turn to. I hope that there is someone who can shed some light on this. My wife and I have been together for 8 years (no kids). Got well really well, and we love each other still, I think. Of course, there were some issues, but...
  10. "Trial" Separations a Good Idea?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    First post here, although I've been lurking for a while now. I just wanted to hear from some people who have tried "trial" separations. How did they go? Did they help? Were you able to re-unite successfully or did they result in the end of the relationship? Etc, etc, etc. The reason I'm...