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  1. A week in the life...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    (see prior posts for background) Thursday Shell and I went to dinner and spent time talking. She listened more than anything, but responded and affirmed some of the things that I was saying. At the end of the evening, she said that she believed that I was sincere in my commitment, she agrees...
  2. AWESOME Personality Profiling Tool for individuals AND Couples

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    It's called Enneagram. I have completed SEVERAL personality profiling system for work and personal growth, and this is BY far one of the most insightful systems I have found. The concept is that the vast majority of us can be classified into one of 9 personality profiles (3 in each triad)...
  3. Letter to Ex re: Kids reaction to New Boyfriend at house

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    After a heated exchange at the house, Ignored a text, and then responded to a 2nd text "need to know the kids are ok". I called, told her the kids were safe and sound but not OK, and when she started yelling, I hung up. She is taking 9-d to orthodontist first thing in morning, and I want to...
  4. 9 y/o d calls sobbing... Not sure if my reaction was the right one

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    45 minutes after her bedtime, my 9-d called me sobbing. I was having dinner and watching a movie with some friends, and excused myself to talk to her. She was sobbing that she missed me and would do anything for me to come back home. She said that she would move her room back (when I was...
  5. I am Self Aware and Very Expressive - But I HAVE NO IDEA what to do

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    In an effort to keep myself focused, I will first state my goals for posting, and then give what details seem necessary to get some sound advice. 1. I am logically 70% certain that separation and divorce is the best option for my wife and me. We have always had significant communication...
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