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  1. How does retirement impact support payments.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I realize the answer may vary from state to state, but in general, are support payment reduced after payer retires? Is the payment schedule defined as part of initial divorce agreement or re-negotiated after retirement occurs?
  2. the spouse of an alcoholic

    Relationships and Addiction
    My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, and we have a 3 month old baby. He had problems with alcohol since before we even met, i didn´t know the gravity of this until the first time i actually saw him drunk, last night. when we had conversations about alcohol before getting...
  3. When basic expectations go unmet...

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I are in our early-to-mid 30's, been married for going on 10 years, are both professionals with demanding careers, and have no kids. No prior marriages for either one of us. So, there's some huge gaps between my basic ideals and reality in this marriage, and I feel sad about it just...
  4. Support, advice and help please!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Sorry in advance for such a long posting. I am really going through the mill at the moment and I’d appreciate some views and encouragement. My wife and I met in Barcelona Spain nine years ago. She is Canadian and I am British. We hit it off immediately and started dating. Things were...
  5. Starting a Trial Separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi All. I'm new here and just about to start a trial separation with my husband. We've been married for just over 3 1/2 years and are having some serious issues. I apologize in advance for the long post ahead.... My husband has been a serial cheater. I feel like every form a logic should tell me...
  6. I don't get any emotional support from my husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi guys, I hope this isn't too long and I will try and explain it as best I can :) My husband and I have been married almost a year. During this time weve had a lot going on because hes applied for a visa and weve been waiting nearly a year for the decision - which means he hasnt been able to...
  7. Big dreams flip flop

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am hoping to vent a little (oops, a lot!) about my situation and possibly to gain some advice about wading through a few issues that my husband and I are having in our marriage. I just joined today and I'm a little nervous about getting outside comments on our relationship but right now I...
  8. A support forum for people having affairs? Yup.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Look I found the anti-TAM, a support forum for people having affairs: http://www.ivillage.com/forums/forum/19845 Ready to read some of the most vile, self-indulgent bull**** ever written? An insightful glimpse into the minds of our waywards and their pos partners, might be of some use...
  9. Looking for Communication help and support.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my post. I am in need of some help and support in communicating with my wife. I feel like i am a good communicator and a good listener, and supportive of her. Actually I feel like I am doing all the work. Wait on her hand and foot. She has never cooked...
  10. Total Honesty

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have discovered that you can hover over a person who makes comments and see the other posts they have made. I am making this post because I want everyone who hovers over my name to know a little more about me. I am a mother of three. My husband spent a year in unemployment trying to get...
  11. Support during seperation/divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I wanted to start this thread for those who just so happen to recently start looking at these forums. I know the pain you all must be feeling but the best thing that you can do for yourself is let the people who love you (friends and family) help you out. Let them make you dinner once a week...
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