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  1. Wife left while I was struggling with PTSD

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am in a very dark place. I tried to kill myself last week. I have suffered with PTSD, depression and anxiety for a while and I was drinking to cope. I was never violent or anything like that. I know my wife didn't like me drinking but she knew why I was drinking. My wife and I weren't...
  2. Wife left while I was struggling with PTSD

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am in a very dark place. I tried to kill myself last week. I have suffered with PTSD, depression and anxiety for a while and I was drinking to cope. I was never violent or anything like that. I know my wife didn't like me drinking but she knew why I was drinking. My wife and I weren't...
  3. New Year, New Me

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I used to follow TAM a fair bit about three or four years ago. I first started browsing this website while attempting to save my marriage After I admitted to having an affair. I always felt like I got a lot of good advice and support here. I wish that I could say things were different today...
  4. Need some advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone. I've read a few posts here and have gained much knowledge from other people's situations so I'd like to thank everyone for sharing beforehand. My home situation is pretty good compared to most people but I'd like to get perspectives from others so I don't think about wanting to...
  5. Jovan Belcher of the Chiefs murder/suicide

    Coping with Infidelity
    Such a horrible thing. When I first heard of it, the thought of infidelity popped into my head. Most likely, we'll never know. One news item I read was interesting though, his girlfriend evidently went out Friday night to a concert with some girlfriends. Apparently, he didn't want her to go...
  6. I need help or advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for 14 years. I thought happily. Monday, my wife drops a bomb on me and says she hasn't been happy in over a year. I know it's going to be hard for you guys to give me advice because you don't know either of us and it's too hard to explain the circumstances. So the question...
  7. I'm so depressed please help :[

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I've been married to my husband for a year and 3 months and I've been with him for 5 years. To go into how we got to this place, I'll tell you what has happened over these past 5 years. For the first 6 months of our relationship, it was the best relationship I'd ever had in my life. This...
  8. Husband's depression/anxiety

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I am new here and am looking for advice. I have been married for over twenty years to Tom. We have two sons. He has been depressed and had anxiety from day one. I was so young when we were married, I did not realize the extent of what it would be like to live with someone with this illness...
  9. She constantly threatens to commit suicide

    General Relationship Discussion
    I and this woman (A) are in relationship for about 6 months now. We've known each other since 9 years. Two years into our friendship, I told her that I like her. I was really mad about her for some reason. But she was in a relationship at that time and rejected me. I ran after her for about 2...
  10. I really need help, I thought of just ending my life

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband says I don t do as much to please him as he does for me. This could be true to a certain extent. He tells me his whole day is revolved around pleasing me, but he works 45 hrs out the week. I drive him to work and pick him up, 40 mins everyday, pick up our 4 yr old son, and keep at...
  11. Fourth Time's A Killer

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm not even sure what to say here. I've read so many other stories but I don't know if I can get beyond this like other people have tried to do. I discovered the hard way, less than two months ago, that my husband of 10 years has, for nearly 5 years, been spending large amounts of money on...
  12. How can I continue living after his infidelity

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am a very depressed lonely woman. I have been with my husband for around 30 years and recently I found out that he is embroiled in an affair with a China woman. I love him so much and he still does this to me. When I confronted him, he tells me the love is gone between us and communication...
  13. Please help! Wife's depression (her mother committed suicide)

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I don't know where to start. I have written a lot in my profile that might help you understand the situation. Tried to give enough back story. Please read that, too! I'll add that my wife is a really sweet, smart, creatively brilliant person. Very caring. Very loving. Very into family. But, it...
  14. Oh... what a mess. Any advice?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been festering with concerns and anxiety for a couple of weeks. I don't really have anyone to talk to, so google led me here. History: My first marriage lasted from the time I was 17 to the time I was 32. We entered MC the end of last year, separated in January, divorced by June. I have...
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