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Greetings! We are a married couple that have been together (as a couple) for about 16 years and have known each other for 22 years. We met in college (Slippery Rock University) and were best friends there but never dated. As a married couple we've been through a lot together including...

I keep seeing comments about people who have successfully caught their WS with VARs and that is so PI cool. Out of curiosity, anyone with a VAR success story: how long did you have to use the VAR before you got your evidence? Was it one you kept in the vehicle or hidden in the house? :nerd:

So here it is...three years ago today, the judge banged a gavel and ended my marriage. It was not my choice. Oddly enough the sun came up the next day just like it always did.:) Funny that. Little by little my life began to improve. I got the things that I wanted and worked on myself to be a...

:scratchhead: My husband and I separated a little over a month ago and honestly I did not give him the space he needed during this first month because I was in such physical pain about the whole thing that I fell into a pit of depression and desperation. But now, I am trying to give him his...

My Cheating Wife-Would love Feedback/Advice. I’ve been a frequent reader and contributor to this site for several months. I’m now posting my story in full and would welcome feedback. I know it’s long, so for those with a short attention span, I apologize. My wife and I have been together for...

I thought I would share something very personal today. The last couple of weeks I’ve found myself in several threads about how long do you go on in an unhappy marriage. When is enough, enough. Not long ago was the first anniversary since I found out about my wife’s emotional affair. A...