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  1. Pre-Cancerous and STILL smoking? WTH?

    Life After Divorce
    So four yearsa go we split...blah, blah, blah... A few months after she is in her new place , the kids report to me that she has stopped smoking. I congratulate her and she tells me that her last checkup x-rays showed interstitial scarring on her lungs. I'm supportive. A while back I noticed...
  2. Wife smokes and I can't get over it.

    Relationships and Addiction
    I am a college track runner and my wife smokes. She smoked when I met her, she smoked through her pregnancy with my daughter, and she continues to smoke now. I was always against it and I made her aware of that. She always promised to quit, and several times told me she had quit. But I would...
  3. 38 Weeks Pregnant; Still Smoking Pack and a Half

    General Relationship Discussion
    Wife and I both smoke (my bad). I want to quit and have been wanting to for quite some time. I started smoking again months after meeting her. We got pregnant and she tried to quit but failed, ultimately we lost the child. I don't necessarily think it was due to smoking. After, I asked her to...
  4. Living With a Stranger

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I just completed our first year of marriage. Until the week of our anniversary, I thought we had a very healthy and happy relationship. That week, I discovered my husband was lying to me about smoking, was addiction to drugs, and spent money we did not have. Although he is getting...
  5. What can I do??? Or is it too late???

    Relationships and Addiction
    He is the story.. I'll try too keep it short and to the point.. I have been married for 9 1/2 years and I have lied to my wife the entire marriage. Mostly about smoking (cigarettes) but also about gambeling lately, as well as looking at porn on the internet. The smoking lie has been our whole...
  6. His smoking is ruining our marriage.

    Relationships and Addiction
    We've been married for a year and a half. Neither of us have been married before. We lived together for a short while prior to being married. While we were living together, we were working; now we're both in college and money is especially tight. - I knew that my now husband had smoked since...
  7. Help, Husband doesn't trust me on anything anymore.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Let me start out this novel here. About 2 & 1/2 years ago I had a stressful event occur in my life, now it has been resolved, for the most part - but at the time it pretty much wrecked my life. I used to be a smoker (cigs) when I was younger. I quit because my then boyfriend now husband...