Hey all, I (mid-30’s male) just found out my wife (early 40’s female, “Rachel” not her real name), was chatting with some guy online from a stupid mobile game. Sorry for the novel below, it's long but this is my only outlet right now. Background: 4 Kids three of them are at home, two are over...

I am Totallysad, and I first wrote a post here in 2015 sharing my experiences after a 16 year marriage with my husband in which I went through numerous instances of finding him cheating on me, physical abuse and emotional trauma. Every single response to my post asked me to seek counselling for...

Used to read the forums a lot, but not for a while since my wife and my relationship has been improving and really good the last year until early this week. I plan on reading the forums again, but so lost and hurt at this point I can't think straight. Will try to keep it short. Married 14...

My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. This is my third marriage, his first. He has struggled with sexual addictions long bf I came into the picture (and had no clue about until after we were married). I've tried helping him. He's tried visiting several psychologists with no...

As the topic says, I have reached a point with my wife where I do not know how to move forward. We have dozens of issues in our marriage, yet it has held together. The biggest issue we have faced over the years is trust. I have kept hoping that she will help me to trust her, but it just isn't...

My husband and I have been through a lot. I feel like I have forgiven and brushed things under the rugged more than I should have these last 8 years. The most recent event is that I caught him sexting an ex girlfriend that he has refused to end contact because of past events. I don't know how to...

First of all, joining this site and making this post is a huge step. I am feeling so alone and lost I do not know where to turn. One thing I do know is that I need to release and tell my story. Hoping there is some advice available. My husband and I have been together for 8+ years, and have...

Good Morning All, This may be long winded, but I'll try to be concise and get to the point. I am engaged to the most wonderful woman that walks. We have/had the greatest relationship. Struggles galore financially as she is in school full time and cannot contribute financially. But she is my...

I am seeking some advice with respect to infidelity that has occurred in my marriage. First some background: My husband and I are in the agriculture business and own two properties which are about 300 miles apart. During the summer we are separated, each running one of the ranches...

BH and I have always had dishonesty underlying our relationship, based on his behaviors (#'s found, emails, texts, etc). Over the years I have asked and asked (sexually) if he'd like things different, does he want to role play, dirty talk, anything..."give me a clue as clearly you don't appear...

I have been married for 2 years, but with my husband for 9 years. We have a 4 year old daughter, and have had a rollercoster life. I have been a preschool teacher for the past 8 years, and for a while the main supporter of the house. Between working and taking care of our daughter, and school I...

Married 15 years - most outsiders would consider our marriage a good marriage, we're both very open, good to each other, publicly affectionate, still hold hands, etc. Earlier this year, we started to disconnect a bit. Our nightly routine consisted of watching separate TVs, going to bed at...

Ok so I need some help...I am very shy when it comes to all this so bare with me..lol H and I have started venturing into sexting...and Im lost! Im horrible at "dirty talk" during sex (which id love to get better at) and I draw a blank every time he sends me dirty text....everyone says "just...

My wife and I have have had some issues the past two years. I know I have not been the model husband to her during this time but I have never done anything like showing my self to another person. One morning I woke up and found her sleeping in my recliner in my man cave with the music on...

I feel like this is just a repeat of other threads (which it is) but i dont want to jump in someone else' story to ask advice for my situation. married 7 years. i love her dearly. etc. about a month ago my wife mentioned that she had communicated with an ex-boyfriend (from 12 years ago). I...

I've been married for 10 years and we have 2 beautiful kids. 3 Years ago my Wife reconnected with an ex-boyfriend of her, I didn't think much of it and when she asked me I said it was ok for them to meet over coffee and catch up since they when to school together and stuff... I decided to...

Reposting as suggested from another thread. Thanks for the help! 'll try to keep this brief for the forum. Through a roundabout way, I discovered last Sept my wife was having an emotional online affair, including sexting and pictures. It had moved into a serious as it can be online...

i am 24 and have been married for over 2 years. since last fall, my husband has been sexting a very close friend of ours/my family who is also the mother of one of my best friends. i caught him in spring. he lied about it and said it was only once. they had been doing this almost weekly, and it...