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  1. The Men's Clubhouse
    Long story short.....largely sexless marriage, not toxic so staying together for kids (we have two teens and I'm trying to minimize the impact on them, which will likely mean staying together for another 2 years). What to do about Valentine's Day? We've been largely able to avoid Valentine's...
  2. Sex in Marriage
    Hi folks, it's been a long time since I've posted. My full story is very long (you can probably see my old posts under my profile if you'd really like to) so I will try my best to keep this short. Essentially, for the entirety of my wife and I's married lives, we've lived in a mostly sexless...
  3. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Ok I'm looking to see if anyone else is in a similar situation. I've turned to the internet because I really do not have anyone in a 3rd party position that I can look to. My new husband and I have been together for almost 6 years. We dated for 4, engaged for 1.5, and recently married in the...
  4. General Relationship Discussion
    I am fustraded sexually and physically tired. I cook the meals, get my child ready for daycrare bring him there pick him up, do the laundry, do the dishes, pick up the house, hired a cleaner every other week to clean, help meal plan, help order groceries online for delivery, feed the dog, take...
  5. Sex in Marriage
    Well, this may take a moment to explain what I would consider a sexless marriage. I may be convinced that maybe I have just been unwanted. Sense the topic is about a sexless marriage(mine); one can safely assume to over generalize or to stereotype that I am a ruthless, emotionless, selfish...
  6. Sex in Marriage
    Hard to know where to begin to give you all enough back story. My husband and I have been married now for 1 year. We each have a child. I have a 10 year old daughter and he has a 5 year old son. Sometimes I feel most of our problems all stem from his son. I can get more into that at the end...
  7. Sex in Marriage
    I have one of those stories - I had a normal, happy sex life with a significant other - until I didn't. We dated for a couple years. He was romantic, devoted to me, and we had a lot of core values in common. We were in love. The sex was vanilla (early on I asked flat out what his fetishes were...
  8. Sex in Marriage
    For over six years now my wife has had zero passion for me. We only have sex now about once every six months and she lays there and doesn't move, look at me or touch me. I work from home running a couple of small businesses and I do all the housework and most the cooking. I think I am a good...
  9. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey all, Came here looking for insight because I'm stuck in true ambivalence about what to do in my marriage. Not interested in venting about him, he's a lovely person, I'm not angry with him, but I am not satisfied in our marriage. I'm in my late 30's, American, he's 40, French, and our...
  10. The Men's Clubhouse
    I am a new poster to this site and I see this in a lot of men's threads, and it's my worst nightmare to end up in a relationship where we don't have sex at least once a week. Since I am not and never have been married, I don't have to worry. However, I am curious about men's stories with this-...
  11. The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies, I don't really have anywhere else to turn about this because all of my friend's marriages seem to be bliss. My husband and I just got married in December of last year so we should, in theory, still be "honeymooning" but really these problems began before we said I do. In the...
  12. Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been married for 8 months. We were together for 2 years prior to marrying and did not have sex before we married as we are Christian and believed this was the right thing to do. Fooling around, I had the impression he was very interested in regular and exciting/kinky sex...
  13. Sex in Marriage
    I know there are similar posts regarding this, but I wanted to start a new one so I could immediately get some advice. A little background...... We came together after two divorces each (third times a charm, right?). She brought with her two great kids, one from each ex. I love them as if...
  14. Sex in Marriage
    I’m afraid and I don’t know why I’m afraid of letting go, afraid of sex, afraid of.. just afraid. I don’t know why. I was raised in what I thought was a lax catholic family but I really don’t know anymore. Growing up I was just told to toughen up and move on. To hide things and let them go...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    It is clear to me now that my marrige is close to being over. Due to significantly different feelings regarding intimacy i have felt alone and unwanted for far too long. I still have a glimmer or hope that we will work it out, however i have lost all drive to fight for it and truely feel like...
  16. Sex in Marriage
    Hi All, I'm in a big dilemma. Im 29 years old, married for exactly one year now. I met my husband in my apartment complex, he was my neighbour. We dated for 3 years before tying the knot in Jan 2014. We never had pre-marital sex, as I insisted on waiting till we get married. We did fool around...
  17. Sex in Marriage
    This is going to be long, so if you don't want to read it all here is the tl;dr - Married for less than 2.5 years and there's already almost no intimacy in my marriage. I was here over a year ago and things don't seem to be changing. Here's my post from last year: Less than 1.5 years and...
  18. Relationships and Addiction
    I have been married to my wife for 11 year. For most of the time she has had an inability to deal with any stress. In our courting stage it seemed to be simple complaining, and never got out of hand. I wasn't around her 24/7 and she seemed to have other outlets. As our like together moved...
  19. Sex in Marriage
    We are young. I'm 23 and he is about to turn 23. We have been married over a year. We were each other's first sexual partners. I was his first girlfriend. While I had dated and even experimented in the past, I suffered from vaginismus which was not "cured" (after undergoing surgery and physical...
  20. General Relationship Discussion
    Let me summarize for the sake of a better read...Married 18 years, high school sweethearts, 2 daughters. Wife is a SAHM, kids are busy in after school programs. We live in a very nice house, drive new cars and I earn an excellent income; money is not an issue...the family gets whatever they...
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