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I have absolutely zero libido. My boyfriend(we're still dating) has infected me with some STD's, which resulted in me having a chronic cervicitis and severe vaginitis. Due to these conditions, I'm unable to have sex because it is so painful for me. I've had it for about a year before I got a...

My husband and I have been married for less than 2 years. We are both mid-twenties. At first we had sex every time we saw each other, as is quite usual in new-ish relationships. Over time sex frequency has reduced, I now have a much lower sex drive than him so I'm the reason. I have even come...

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Together 17 yrs, Married 13 yrs, 2 kids, in 30s. First thank you for these forums; been reading for nearly 2 years before this post but the time has come as I need other human input. Sry lengthy. I'd like to skip most the historical for now as I want to get to the substance of my plight. Just...

We have zero sex. After 18 years of marriage and 20 years together, we have 2 beautiful teen girls. But we don’t have sex. There is always an excuse. The girls, not interested, video game will take 2 hours, he says I’m fat, it’s too cold, not a good time, it’s not our anniversary. I get the cold...

So I’m 42, my 41. We have married for 21 years have 7 kids and it has been great! My problem is in the bedroom. We don’t argue about a lot of things but sex and the number per week is one of them. She is very good and ensuring that it happens a couple times a week but it always feels like...

I know initiating sex is a big topic among relationships, I would like to know mens view point on this. I agree women can be too subtle at times. What is a man looking for as far as initiation goes? Insight: I have a very high sex drive but I highly fear rejection and feel I may ask at...

Husband 33M says working on us feels like a chore to him. We have severe communication issues as well as sexual issues. Mainly I 29F have a much higher sex drive than he does. I want sex more. And he just isn't a sexual person. He doesn't try to please me sexually. Doesn't show any kind...

I honestly had no idea what category to put this in....Advice, support, affairs, guilt...you name it, I basically have it all covered. Sorry to say, this might be the longest post ever. I just hope people see this as an "addiction" and a cry for help, and not just bash me for my indiscretions...

The story starts where I always wanted to think of my wife was riding another **** while I was there. So I planned a nice dinner one night at a local restaurant and then I was going to tell my wife about my fantasy. We get to the restaurant and they are having a special on drinks so this was my...

Hi there, I had braces and so i didnt suck my husbands **** that much, i would but i was afraid of cutting his **** with them by accident, so i told him when i got them off i would suck him more when i got them off, but they ended up putting the retainters that go on the back of the teeth...

So, my husband is 18 years older than I am. Over the last 2 years he has had some trouble staying 'ready' for sex. I have a near non-existent sex drive so most of the time its really not that big of a deal for me. However, he tells me that I'm not arousing him enough and that is why he can't...

1st post- I asked my wife if she was “coming back to bed” this morning. She responded with how can that be all you’re worried about. She comes back to bed 10 minutes or so later. I begin kissing neck and shoulders, etc. She says she’s not doing that. She’s looking for this macaroni recipe...

I'm getting married in 9 weeks, and I'm having serious doubts I could use your help with. I'm a 36 yo man, and my fiance is a woman the same age. We've been dating for ~5 years. I've been in serious relationships before, but I'm her first serious relationship that's lasted longer than 3...

25 years married. 10 not sleeping on same bed... 3 years physically separated, due to extended family matters and covid, but not officially for the extended family neither. Our story is full of errors and mistakes. Our two adult kids, now, suffered the ups and downs of our relationship. He...

I'm pretty new to this site, so apologies if this has been addressed before and I haven't seen it. But I want perspectives from other professing Christians on the topic of masturbation. I'll try not to be too explicit or vulgar 😅. I have read respected Christian scholars and counselors on the...

This will be quite long and there are so many variants so you may not get the full picture. I’ve been with my OH for 16 years, married for 9, have 2 young kids (under 8). I know I’ve fallen out of love with him and I can’t admit it. I guess I’m scared of the future, not without him but telling...

Hi, I am a man in my 30s, married for 10 years and got 3 young kids. We both lost our virginity when we first started dating, so we never experience anybody else. Sex was always more important to me than her. I always wanted to respect her and never wanted to ask to much of my wife, don't put...

Ok, so my husband and I have been having some issues involving him meeting me halfway in our marriage. Just being there more emotionally. We’ve been distant for a while because he’s been doing nonstop training since January and we haven’t been able to connect in person. Although he couldn’t be...