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  1. Sex in Marriage
    My husband of over 5 years wants to have a threesome. I went on a hookup app with him to explore what was out there, and he found someone to have a 3 some with. I became uncomfortable and backed out and now he is angry with me. I don't know what to do. I feel depressed and hurt. Should I just...
  2. Sex in Marriage
    My (50m) wife (48f) and I had a great sexual relationship for most of our marriage. Without going into details - I am 100% certain that it was satisfying for both of us. About 5 years ago (we’ve been married 29) she started not wanting me to touch her breasts as much and over time stopped...
  3. The Men's Clubhouse
    I've been married for 10 years now. We have two kids (8 and 3 years old). We dated for 7 years before marriage and living together, during that time she usually wanted a lot more sex. Since we live together and she started working, which happened at the same time, her sex drive and initiative...
  4. Sex in Marriage
    I just got married. Like 2 months ago. I am in love with this man... he is my best friend. Although we’ve known each other for a minute I feel it’s been a lifetime. We’re bothe in our late 20s. In the course of getting to know each other we spoke about our past partners and likes and dislikes in...
  5. Sex in Marriage
    too many strangers are not picking details that I obv can’t prove to strangers so it’s clear this isn’t actually going to be worth my time or helpful. Thanks for those who actually stuck to my question for the most part
  6. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone, I am new to this message board, and I’m reaching out for some advice. I have been married for 12 years and have two girls (9 and 7). My husband and I have had trouble throughout our marriage including: financial trouble (in which I was blamed for spending too much money), not...
  7. The Men's Clubhouse
    Recap: We met 4 times in London, been together for about a week, have sex 3 times, then he flew back to Australia. He was 17 yrs older than me, our sex was like fire x fire, emotionally and physically. We keep in touch for like 1 month. I wanted to settle down a relationship, not just hanging...
  8. Sex in Marriage
    I will try my best to not make this super long winded, but I feel some background is important in all this. First, my wife and I have always had very different sex drives. She is does/did have hypersexuality, and a lot of times, it was very hard for me to keep up with her. So we came up with...
  9. Sex in Marriage
    So my husband and I have been married for 15 years - we are very open with our sex life and can get quite kinky. With that being said though, self-pleasure in his eyes is downright wrong and nasty... since day one I have expressed to him the fantasy of watching himself please, while I return the...
  10. Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I have been married for several years and throughout this time the first 5-10 minutes of sex is quite uncomfortable for her. We have talked about it several times and she has said it us due to me being well endowed. We have tried lube but it still takes her some time to relax and...
  11. Long Term Success in Marriage
    I'd like to share a marriage tip that has worked wonders over the years. It is very simple but it has been immensely helpful in maintaining the pleasurable intimacy that typically wanes in a marriage. It's a way to trigger sexual desire in a man whose mind might otherwise be more occupied with...
  12. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello all, I've been struggling with this for a while, and I found this site, so I'm hoping to get some help here. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now. We have one child (4yo), a house, animals, etc. The problem is that, essentially, I feel like my husband is just a roommate...
  13. Sex in Marriage
    I’ve been married now since November 2019, and I’ve only had sex with my wife 3 times. she sadly lost her parents over the past couple of years, so I’ve been supportive and accepting her wishes. But theses are no sex, no cuddling, more often than not she wants to go to sleep alone. These...
  14. The Men's Clubhouse
    My wife and I have gone through a lot and now we are in therapy. But I am restricted in every way with anything sexual. I can not do anything until she says she’s ready. And it’s only what she says I can do. I can’t ask to try or suggest to do anything else. I’ve never felt so restricted...
  15. Sex in Marriage
    My wife have been married for 2 years together for 7. Like most relationships, when our relationship started we were having sex all the time. But as time passed things went downhill. We had dry spells of months at a time at one point a couple of years in. The rest of our relationship had been...
  16. Sex in Marriage
    So my husband and I have been married for 2 years but been together for 5. Long story short, I’ve settled our entire relationship. We use to have great sex in the beginning where he would care about what I want but overtime we’ve been doing lazy sex that only focuses on him. I have never came...
  17. Sex in Marriage
    I have been married for over 35 years. I love my wife and we have a great life together. My wife is not a very physical person. She likes her space and that's fine, I do too. But the sexual part of our relationship have been driving me nuts especial the rules. Rules: No sex except in the dark...
  18. The Ladies' Lounge
    I have been a long time reader and poster to the talkaboutmarriage boards. I have decided to go anon for this one, and i think you will see why. I have been married for 12 years now. After two years of marriage, DH and I were having pillow talk after sex, and we started sharing fantasies...
  19. Sex in Marriage
    Let me start this by saying, I really appreciate all of the sharing everyone here does. I read through the posts and it gave me the strength to be completely honest here. I have been married to my wife for 10.5 years. We have 3 children together, and I have another older child from my 1st...
  20. Sex in Marriage
    Hello. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have been together for 8 years in total. She was my first and when I first had sex with her i asked her if I was the biggest penis shes ever had and she started laughing. After that we kept having sex, but we keptWithin a year, we were...
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