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  1. Ideas to spice up your marriage

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    I'd like to share a marriage tip that has worked wonders over the years. It is very simple but it has been immensely helpful in maintaining the pleasurable intimacy that typically wanes in a marriage. It's a way to trigger sexual desire in a man whose mind might otherwise be more occupied with...
  2. Husband is basically just my roommate

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello all, I've been struggling with this for a while, and I found this site, so I'm hoping to get some help here. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now. We have one child (4yo), a house, animals, etc. The problem is that, essentially, I feel like my husband is just a roommate...
  3. Married with no intimacy.

    Sex in Marriage
    I’ve been married now since November 2019, and I’ve only had sex with my wife 3 times. she sadly lost her parents over the past couple of years, so I’ve been supportive and accepting her wishes. But theses are no sex, no cuddling, more often than not she wants to go to sleep alone. These...
  4. Not sure what to do or how to feel

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My wife and I have gone through a lot and now we are in therapy. But I am restricted in every way with anything sexual. I can not do anything until she says she’s ready. And it’s only what she says I can do. I can’t ask to try or suggest to do anything else. I’ve never felt so restricted...
  5. Baby blues and low libido

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife have been married for 2 years together for 7. Like most relationships, when our relationship started we were having sex all the time. But as time passed things went downhill. We had dry spells of months at a time at one point a couple of years in. The rest of our relationship had been...
  6. One sided lazy sex & lack of affection

    Sex in Marriage
    So my husband and I have been married for 2 years but been together for 5. Long story short, I’ve settled our entire relationship. We use to have great sex in the beginning where he would care about what I want but overtime we’ve been doing lazy sex that only focuses on him. I have never came...
  7. Sex Cycles and Arbitrary Rules

    Sex in Marriage
    I have been married for over 35 years. I love my wife and we have a great life together. My wife is not a very physical person. She likes her space and that's fine, I do too. But the sexual part of our relationship have been driving me nuts especial the rules. Rules: No sex except in the dark...
  8. Cuckold/Hotwife understanding **maybe TMI

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I have been a long time reader and poster to the talkaboutmarriage boards. I have decided to go anon for this one, and i think you will see why. I have been married for 12 years now. After two years of marriage, DH and I were having pillow talk after sex, and we started sharing fantasies...
  9. Coping with an almost-sexless marriage.

    Sex in Marriage
    Let me start this by saying, I really appreciate all of the sharing everyone here does. I read through the posts and it gave me the strength to be completely honest here. I have been married to my wife for 10.5 years. We have 3 children together, and I have another older child from my 1st...
  10. Why does my wife like dressing me up so much?

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have been together for 8 years in total. She was my first and when I first had sex with her i asked her if I was the biggest penis shes ever had and she started laughing. After that we kept having sex, but we keptWithin a year, we were...
  11. Are sex jokes to my wife during a party fine?

    General Relationship Discussion
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  12. Hi! I am a new member seeking some advice

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello! I am a new member and I am seeking advice regarding my sexless marriage. I have been with my husband for 10 years. We recently married this past summer. We do not have any children. For nearly 7 years my husband has not had much of a sex drive and therefore we have been struggling...
  13. Making My Marriage Great Again

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Married 35 years. Still learning.
  14. Appropriate Sexual Fantasies in Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    Do you think ANY sexual fantasy during sex is appropriate in marriage? My husband likes to talk about me having sex with former and other partners during sex. For some reason it turns him on to hear me talk about sex with another man. real life he would NEVER have it. He would never...
  15. NYC Parents who have overcome a dry spell

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello NYC parents! I am a video producer at a digital parenting publication. We are working on an editorial video (no advertising, strictly editorial) in which we speak to real parent couples who have overcome a dry spell. We want to create a dialogue that helps other parents feel a little...
  16. Husband refuses my sexual needs

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi! New here. A little about me: married 18 yrs, 2 kids (17 and 11). For years, literally years, I have asked, talked to, and eventually begged my husband for more ‘exciting’ sex. My definition of exciting is passion, maybe a little roughness.... anything except ‘vanilla sex’. I’m 39 and the...
  17. Sex Life Gone After Twins

    Sex in Marriage
    I have lurked in this forum for a bit, but decided to create an account and post my experience. My wife and I have been married 9 years. She was flirty, had the touch love language, and is my amazing soulmate. Sex has always (well almost always) been frequent and amazing. We had trouble getting...
  18. Sexually Incompatible..what to do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    So my husband had a porn addiction for years so his level of fantasy is beyond words. Since I have known him he likes to have very perverted sex. Calling me names, treating me like the girls in the porn, making me explain in detail my sexual experiences with other men, and making me dress in...
  19. BBW Fiancée

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, We're in our early 30s and plan to marry soon. I love her, and she loves me, so there's no problem in that department. However, there is a recurring problem that creeps up in the bedroom. Long story short, she got pregnant (she delivered a few years ago), and she gained some weight from...
  20. His Sexual Fantasies: Abnormal or Is It Me? This Is Breaking Our Marriage.

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have never been sexually matched. He really doesn't know how to make love to a woman and clearly lacks sexual confidence (even though he's been having sex since he was 13 and has more partners than he can count). To be fair, sex has never been a big driver for me, although at...