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  1. Hi! I am a new member seeking some advice

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello! I am a new member and I am seeking advice regarding my sexless marriage. I have been with my husband for 10 years. We recently married this past summer. We do not have any children. For nearly 7 years my husband has not had much of a sex drive and therefore we have been struggling...
  2. He won't have sex and I'm lost

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi all, Here's my situation and I need help in understanding what is causing our problem and if there anything concrete I can do to overcome it. I am a 35 year old woman, my husband is 38. We got married a year and a half ago and dated for 2 years before that. We have had sex about 10 times...
  3. Hey there, sex question

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My question was answered, thanks everyone for the time! I really do appreciate it
  4. Sexless Marriage...What should I do?

    Sex in Marriage
    Well, this may take a moment to explain what I would consider a sexless marriage. I may be convinced that maybe I have just been unwanted. Sense the topic is about a sexless marriage(mine); one can safely assume to over generalize or to stereotype that I am a ruthless, emotionless, selfish...
  5. Is this normal?

    Sex in Marriage
    It boggles my mind that some people actually take the time to create a username and register on this site just to troll! Its not even a "fun" forum where you can "enjoy" surfing and browsing through people's real issues in life, but hey whatever floats your boat! I think I got 2 or maybe 3...
  6. Am I asking for too much?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies, I don't really have anywhere else to turn about this because all of my friend's marriages seem to be bliss. My husband and I just got married in December of last year so we should, in theory, still be "honeymooning" but really these problems began before we said I do. In the...
  7. How to start the D-Word Conversation

    Considering Divorce or Separation
  8. Help! Not able to have normal sex :-(

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi. I hope somebody can help, especially if you have been in the same situation. I have always been a tease, but wanted to wait for marriage so that my first time would be was actually quite horrible. Due to a an auto immune disease I had excruciating pain during intercourse. I'm...
  9. Is It Over?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Is it over? thats the big question im asking myself. I just dont know if i can take another round of this. Background. her and i have been together since high school, over 15 years, married for almost 3 engaged for 3 before that or so, i'm being vague for the sake of anonymity. I joined the...
  10. Obesity and LD in woman.

    Sex in Marriage
    I know there can be physical causes for lack of sexual desire. I, for one, was recently diagnosed with low t in my late forties and a once monthly shot has made a big difference in how much I desire sex. But the time spent together with my wife in bed has changed little. But I was wondering if...
  11. Can I Change Myself to End the Chaos?- LONG!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I am new to the forum and I am turning to "the internet" because I am an isolated stay-at-home mother who doesn't get out much... and I have no one to talk to. I am 33, my husband is 36 and our daughter is 18 months old. We've been together 11 years and married 9 years; none of which have...
  12. Body odour and personal hygiene

    Sex in Marriage
    So here is the question I kept wondering about since a certain while. There are a lot of posts / threats where poeple were talking about personal hygiene body odor; how they take showers before sex (and after) etc... I must admit that I find nothing worse than too much perfume :p. Deodorant is...
  13. What shall i do?

    Sex in Marriage
    After 4 years of marriage and having 2 boys, things have changed between me and my husband. He is busy all the time, always at work or out with friends. The last time we were together in bed was a months and 19 days now. I know that things change between couples after having children but i still...
  14. Question for women who have had sex before marriage

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone, I was raised in a pretty strict religious home and growing up I always thought my future wife would be a virgin. Now that I'm an adult and out on my own in the real world I realize that marrying a virgin is a very rare occurrence, at least in America, not sure about other...
  15. Pregnant wife, I'm losing sexual interest

    Sex in Marriage
    Good afternoon, My wife and I have been married a for 2 years, we've found out we're having a baby soon. Since finding out I've noticed my sexual desire has dropped tremendously. ( I feel I should tell you that when we married I had never had sex. I'm a christian and so is my wife. During...
  16. He wants sex while I sleep.

    Sex in Marriage
    I am so frustrated with my husband right now. I have been up since 6:30 on a Sunday morning because my husband just had sex with me (or should I say "with my nearly unconscious body") while I was trying to sleep. It doesn't piss me off that he had sex with me...what makes me angry is that this...
  17. Considering Divorce and Need Advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been married for almost 7 years. We have a 3 year old son and have already separated twice. Both times were my doing and both times I got back together with him because he seemed to have changed. Both times he did change a little, but as we have gotten older he has gotten worse in other...
  18. Am I being unreasonable/difficult?

    Sex in Marriage
    I've been with the man who is now my husband for 13 years now. We just got married last September. We have very few disagreements except for one sore subject- anal sex. He pressures me about having it. When we started dating I was up front and told him it was not an option. But as the...
  19. Wife talked about poor sexual performance publicly

    Sex in Marriage
    Over the weekend, my wife and I were at a get together with good friends. Somehow the conversion turned to having sex while skydiving (funny, I know). Then, in front of the group, she said "Michael wouldn't be good at that. He's not good performing under pressure." Note that there have been...
  20. Past Sexual Partners

    Sex in Marriage
    So I am not one to ask my husband about his sexual past. Numbers do not concern me and I am not the jealous type. He had a past before me and I am thankful that we met when we did. Additionally, I was and still am very close friends with two of his ex girlfriends/partners. I knew this when we...