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  1. To tired for sex? Again!

    The Ladies' Lounge
    IM IN A SAME SEX MARRIAGE AND MY WIFE IS 8 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. WE BARELY HAVE SEX SHE IS ALWAYS TIRED. ITS MAKING ME LOSE INTEREST AND THE CONNECTION TO HER. I WANT MY MARRIAGE TO WORK BUT ITS TO THE POINT WHERE I JUST FEEL ITS AN EXCUSE... HOW DO I GET THE SPARK BACK??:confused:
  2. Question for women who have had sex before marriage

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone, I was raised in a pretty strict religious home and growing up I always thought my future wife would be a virgin. Now that I'm an adult and out on my own in the real world I realize that marrying a virgin is a very rare occurrence, at least in America, not sure about other...
  3. Wife talked about poor sexual performance publicly

    Sex in Marriage
    Over the weekend, my wife and I were at a get together with good friends. Somehow the conversion turned to having sex while skydiving (funny, I know). Then, in front of the group, she said "Michael wouldn't be good at that. He's not good performing under pressure." Note that there have been...
  4. Am I the problem?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Ok this is my first time posting anywhere about these problems. I chose general because I dont know where this should go. Well here goes............................ I have been married for 11 years. My wife has been in school for 9 of those years. I have tried to help her out in any way...
  5. Past Sexual Partners

    Sex in Marriage
    So I am not one to ask my husband about his sexual past. Numbers do not concern me and I am not the jealous type. He had a past before me and I am thankful that we met when we did. Additionally, I was and still am very close friends with two of his ex girlfriends/partners. I knew this when we...
  6. His sex drive is lower

    Sex in Marriage
    Through research I see that I am not alone on the issue of being a wife with a higher sex drive than her husband. We are trying to work through this issue and thus far have made less progress than I had hoped for considering the years we've been working on it. I've run through emotions of...
  7. I feel guilty masturbating, watching porn, what do i do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Only after a month of marriage my wife got pregnany, during 3rd and 4th month I found my wife having an EA (2-3 years of EA, PA may be..50-50) with her ex-boyfriend and telling her that she would have been happy with him. She wanted to marry this other guy, but he was kinda playing games, but...
  8. 4 years of marriage, no sex, different values, should I break up?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    [Hi, I'm considering separation leading to divorce and my mind is a minefield right now. Could you please read on and share your feedback? Sorry it's a long post, but 5 mins of your time could really save my life! Update: Italicizing 'key points' here and in responses since I can't cover...
  9. My Sexuality is a "Weapon"

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello All, Relationships are definitely complicated among us humans, and here is the point of complexity I am struggling with. How do I use my sexuality as a way to emotionally connect with my husband and NOT bludgeon his ego with it during sex? My husband claims that I do not really...
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