sex and emotions

IM IN A SAME SEX MARRIAGE AND MY WIFE IS 8 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. WE BARELY HAVE SEX SHE IS ALWAYS TIRED. ITS MAKING ME LOSE INTEREST AND THE CONNECTION TO HER. I WANT MY MARRIAGE TO WORK BUT ITS TO THE POINT WHERE I JUST FEEL ITS AN EXCUSE... HOW DO I GET THE SPARK BACK??:confused:

Hi everyone, I was raised in a pretty strict religious home and growing up I always thought my future wife would be a virgin. Now that I'm an adult and out on my own in the real world I realize that marrying a virgin is a very rare occurrence, at least in America, not sure about other...

Over the weekend, my wife and I were at a get together with good friends. Somehow the conversion turned to having sex while skydiving (funny, I know). Then, in front of the group, she said "Michael wouldn't be good at that. He's not good performing under pressure." Note that there have been...

Ok this is my first time posting anywhere about these problems. I chose general because I dont know where this should go. Well here goes............................ I have been married for 11 years. My wife has been in school for 9 of those years. I have tried to help her out in any way...

So I am not one to ask my husband about his sexual past. Numbers do not concern me and I am not the jealous type. He had a past before me and I am thankful that we met when we did. Additionally, I was and still am very close friends with two of his ex girlfriends/partners. I knew this when we...

Through research I see that I am not alone on the issue of being a wife with a higher sex drive than her husband. We are trying to work through this issue and thus far have made less progress than I had hoped for considering the years we've been working on it. I've run through emotions of...

Only after a month of marriage my wife got pregnany, during 3rd and 4th month I found my wife having an EA (2-3 years of EA, PA may be..50-50) with her ex-boyfriend and telling her that she would have been happy with him. She wanted to marry this other guy, but he was kinda playing games, but...

[Hi, I'm considering separation leading to divorce and my mind is a minefield right now. Could you please read on and share your feedback? Sorry it's a long post, but 5 mins of your time could really save my life! Update: Italicizing 'key points' here and in responses since I can't cover...

Hello All, Relationships are definitely complicated among us humans, and here is the point of complexity I am struggling with. How do I use my sexuality as a way to emotionally connect with my husband and NOT bludgeon his ego with it during sex? My husband claims that I do not really...