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  1. Wife thinks about other men during sex

    Sex in Marriage
    Ladies...is it normal to fantasize of other men during sex with your husband? We have been married since college (30 years). About 15 years ago my wife had a 3-4 month affair. Unwisely, I wanted to know all the details of their encounters and she shared with me that the sex and her orgasms were...
  2. 10 Months Out, Some Advice Needed, Please...

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello! I wish I had found this site awhile ago. Then again, the pain from an unfaithful spouse doesn't just go away, so I'm glad I found you all now. My D-Day was May 16, 2012. He 'ended' the affair (in other words, went underground.) D-Day #2 was May 21, 2012. Agreed to talk to him on May...
  3. Sex feels like nothing and it's a chore

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi Im new to this whole thing and I'm at the end of my rope with sex and I need help. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and I love him very much we have a 3 year old son buuuuuttttt the sex is terrible. He has a very high sex drive and I used to have a decent sex drive before my...
  4. I'm just not ready for it.

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband carried on an affair for 5 or 6 months. He told this young girl that he was in love with her and wanted to marry her. Fast forward: two weeks after I found out about the affair, he wanted to reconcile our relationship. We've been back together, not living together yet, for 6 months...
  5. Qs to the Unfaithful Husband who has chosen to stay with his wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    BE AS HONEST AS POSSIBLE- So I have two very important questions that I hope to have honest answers returned: Scenario: Your wife discovered you had an affair, and you admitted to it, but it was over before she found out, however, part of the reason you went outside of the marriage to begin...
  6. Question to the men who have been unfaithful but stayed with their wife

    The Men's Clubhouse
    BE AS HONEST AS POSSIBLE- So I have two very important questions that I hope to have honest answers returned: Scenario: Your wife discovered you had an affair, and you admitted to it, but it was over before she found out, however, part of the reason you went outside of the marriage to begin...
  7. My Story:The start on the long road to recovery after many years of sexless marriage.

    Sex in Marriage
    UPDATE: My Story-Long road to recovery after many years of sexless marriage. So I thought I would share with those who have helped on how things have been different since I have allowed myself to not only enjoy sex but become sexual again. It has been suggested I do this regarding moving...
  8. Stepping Out of Comfort Zone

    Sex in Marriage
    UPDATE: Stepping Out of Comfort Zone Let me first start off with that what I am about to do is coming on the heels of recently (within last two months) finding out my H had an 8 month EA. We are in recovery now and have been encouraged to become intimate for the first time. I do not...
  9. How to get over the hurt to see the good?

    Coping with Infidelity
    So I do not want to start this by it making seem as though I am completely innocent in that the EA actually took place so as not to simply raise this question out of sympathy. But what I can say is that I am completely innocent in that I have never cheated, been on the verge of cheating or even...
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