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  1. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi, I'm a writer, a Marriage and Relationship counselor, building a happy Relationship that leads to Marriage is my happiness. Thanks to have you here.:x
  2. Sex in Marriage
    Hey, I’m married 12 years I’m 40 wife 38 3 kids Ongoing problem for years with lack of sex. Always me initiating 99% of time. I always feel like in begging and makes me feel like a pervert I get so desperate. When we do do it it’s always at wrong time get interrupted or we have to be quick. No...
  3. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello! I am a new member and I am seeking advice regarding my sexless marriage. I have been with my husband for 10 years. We recently married this past summer. We do not have any children. For nearly 7 years my husband has not had much of a sex drive and therefore we have been struggling...
  4. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My question was answered, thanks everyone for the time! I really do appreciate it
  5. Sex in Marriage
    It boggles my mind that some people actually take the time to create a username and register on this site just to troll! Its not even a "fun" forum where you can "enjoy" surfing and browsing through people's real issues in life, but hey whatever floats your boat! I think I got 2 or maybe 3...
  6. General Relationship Discussion
    I am 29 she is 29 and very hot. I have this fantasy of her having amazing sex with a super large ****. she is very worried about what I think of her. I never said anything but I use a large dildo dodo and tell her how good her ***** look so spread. she asked me " does my ***** look spread" one...
  7. The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies, I don't really have anywhere else to turn about this because all of my friend's marriages seem to be bliss. My husband and I just got married in December of last year so we should, in theory, still be "honeymooning" but really these problems began before we said I do. In the...
  8. Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I have been dating for 12 years (since we were 16), and married for 5. We have a 1+yr old daughter, whom we adore. My wife recently came home and told me that, although she doesn't want one today, in the future (3 yrs, 5yrs, maybe 10yrs) she wants to have an open relationship. My...
  9. Sex in Marriage
    Hi. I hope somebody can help, especially if you have been in the same situation. I have always been a tease, but wanted to wait for marriage so that my first time would be special...it was actually quite horrible. Due to a an auto immune disease I had excruciating pain during intercourse. I'm...
  10. Sex in Marriage
    Hello friends, I hope I came to the right place for help today. I will try to sum this up as short as possible. Last night, my wife and I were watching a movie. She decides to take a shower before bed. Ok... So I watch a little tv and a good amount of time passes. I decide its time for...
  11. The Ladies' Lounge
    IM IN A SAME SEX MARRIAGE AND MY WIFE IS 8 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. WE BARELY HAVE SEX SHE IS ALWAYS TIRED. ITS MAKING ME LOSE INTEREST AND THE CONNECTION TO HER. I WANT MY MARRIAGE TO WORK BUT ITS TO THE POINT WHERE I JUST FEEL ITS AN EXCUSE... HOW DO I GET THE SPARK BACK??:confused:
  12. The Men's Clubhouse
    I feel rather silly asking for this kind of advice, but here goes. Recently my husband and I went through a rough patch. We are both dedicated to making changes to improve things though, and I'm starting to see differences already. I have been delighted by his efforts and wanted to "reward" him...
  13. Sex in Marriage
    So I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I have been married for about 5 months, now, so you think we would be having sex fairly regularly, like newlyweds. I'm finding, though, that I, the wife, am initiating sex 90% of the time, with my husband only accepting those initiations about 20% of...
  14. Sex in Marriage
    Hello everyone. I have been lurking around and just summoned the courage to post. I have been married 18 months to an amazing guy. We have a wonderful relationship but am always looking for ways to make it better. I have taken note of the books advised here: his and her needs & marriage busters...
  15. Sex in Marriage
    :confused: Hello, I have been married for 4 years. We had a couple as best friends and we were with each other’s almost day at each other’s houses even sleeping over. We had mutual friends and everything was perfect until my husband suddenly changed. He seem distant from me and we wouldn't...
  16. Sex in Marriage
    Good afternoon, My wife and I have been married a for 2 years, we've found out we're having a baby soon. Since finding out I've noticed my sexual desire has dropped tremendously. ( I feel I should tell you that when we married I had never had sex. I'm a christian and so is my wife. During...
  17. Sex in Marriage
    I've been with the man who is now my husband for 13 years now. We just got married last September. We have very few disagreements except for one sore subject- anal sex. He pressures me about having it. When we started dating I was up front and told him it was not an option. But as the...
  18. Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been married for just over 1 year. It all began about 3 months after we got married. My husband stopped climaxing when we're making love. I have spoken with him about it and he keeps claiming I'm not the issue and that it's just his age. My husband is 36, I am 28. He...
  19. Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I've been with my husband for 4 years, we've been living together for 3, and married for 9 months. We're very opposite in many ways and have often clashed, but have stayed together throughout because we are so in love and never wanted to give up what we did have. The way that we have...
  20. General Relationship Discussion
    I need advice on how to start dating after 30 years in one relationship. Had been with my wife all that time and learned two months ago that she no longer wanted to be married and had an ongoing long term affair and a prior one night stand. Filed for divorce two months after learning this (no...
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