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  1. Looking for Advice

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello all. I am here specifically for advice about my nearly sexless marriage. I am female, in my early 40's and actually quite proud of what my SO and I have overcome in the 8 years we have been married. Quick background - we met, got pregnant and were married in less than a year. We were both...
  2. His Sexual Fantasies: Abnormal or Is It Me? This Is Breaking Our Marriage.

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have never been sexually matched. He really doesn't know how to make love to a woman and clearly lacks sexual confidence (even though he's been having sex since he was 13 and has more partners than he can count). To be fair, sex has never been a big driver for me, although at...
  3. Sex/Porn Addiction & Infidelity

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Sharing my personal story with everyone. October of 2015 - kicked my husband out of the house. Literally. His clothes tossed in the driveway. Probably not the best course of action but I was very angry. I had just stumbled upon an unknown email account and photos of his genitals emailed to...
  4. Men and Sexual Fantasies

    The Men's Clubhouse
    In the midst of a conversation centering around fidelity and appropriate friends and boundaries, my husband disclosed that until recently he spent most of his time of facebook looking at friends' photos for sexual gratification but not masturbation (we don't have internet at home and he doesn't...
  5. Marriage About To End - Please Help

    Coping with Infidelity
    Thank you for your interest. Currently there is a issue that my brother and my sister in law are facing which is a little complex yet I need a solution. So some background - marriage was family introduced and had meet for a max of 3 times until the marriage day. Prior to wedding he had...
  6. Husband is not as interested in sex

    Sex in Marriage
    So I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I have been married for about 5 months, now, so you think we would be having sex fairly regularly, like newlyweds. I'm finding, though, that I, the wife, am initiating sex 90% of the time, with my husband only accepting those initiations about 20% of...
  7. Not sure what to do or whats the next step

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    So heres my story... Ive been married to my husband for almost 4 years now. I'm 25 and my husband is 37. While we were dating he ended up emailing other people saying he wanted to hook up. We fought and then what i thought fixed things. We had wonderful times and so in love. I had no worries...
  8. Help: Worried about Working Out and Increased Sex Drive

    General Relationship Discussion
    On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total. I workout 2-3 times per week for about 45 minutes each time and have...
  9. Help: Worried about Working Out Increased Sex Drive

    General Relationship Discussion
    On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total. I workout 2-3 times per week for about 45 minutes each time and have...
  10. Truth keeps tricking in...

    Coping with Infidelity
    I discovered about a month and a half ago that my husband has been cheating on me for our entire 5 year relationship. (Married 1.5 years). I am 5 months pregnant. I discovered live-chat sex in his computer history and had previously known about email sex and love conversations with several...
  11. "Almost" Cheating...??

    General Relationship Discussion
    Cutting to the chase, my husband has a number of problems which equal one huge problem for me; 1.) Contacting, flirting and sexual reminiscing with numerous ex-girlfriends on-line. 2.) Visiting Chat-Sex rooms frequently for anonymous visual and audio sexual encounters. 3.) Skyping with women...
  12. Just found out husband has been cheating with Prostitutes for 22+ years

    Relationships and Addiction
    I just found out my husband of 22 years has been cheating with prostitutes the entire marriage and before. I'm a fairly bright woman, how did I miss this? I feel so incredibly duped and stupid! I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare. If you were to ask anyone if my husband was a...
  13. Is watching Porn OK in a marriage?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has an addiciction to porn/sex. I am not ok with him waching it at all. We have had several talks about it, and he informs me that he will stop. He sometimes tells me he doesnt like his addiction and he wants to stop. Then other times he tells me his need or wanting to watch porn is...
  14. Possible sex addiction of my husband - resources needed

    Relationships and Addiction
    I am wondering if it is possible my husband is addicted to sex. He has a very high sex drive, and the past year has been almost impossible for me. Last year he had an affair, contacted and went to a happy massage place (or maybe a prostitute, I do not know), and was actively looking for more...
  15. I don't know what else to do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 7 years next month and we're still having issues with his porn use. He goes through these times when he will practically stop having sex and coming to me all together and instead watches porn. Usually after I talk to him about how it bothers me things will...
  16. I caught him with my best Friend

    Coping with Infidelity
    ntiqua"]I won't sugar coat this here is the whole story.. Just as info my husband has also posted on this site about the same situation. I met my husband in High school, He was a senior I was a sophmore. We fell in love and when he graduated high school he left for the marine corps. While...
  17. newlyweds and my husband wants me to "go masterbate"

    The Ladies' Lounge
    hello, this is my first post on this forum. well, my husband and i met online in 2010 and october 2011 we married. he is a super great guy and is a real man. his sex drive is way, way lower than mine. he is 49yrs old and i am 36yrs old. he was with his now deceased wife for 21 years prior...
  18. What to do!

    Relationships and Addiction
    I have this posted in the seperation section, but I figured I would post it here as well. My wife and I will be married 5 years this June and we have 3 beautiful girls. I had thought it was a great marriage, with the only hiccup was the sex part. Well, last year my wife told me that she...
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