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  1. considering separation , so afraid and having panic attack,need your views on this..

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I was sponsored to Canada after being married to my wife , she is has a kid from her ex lover , they are so close and chat about a lot , business , basketball games and all that, when he calls on the phone , shouting at her i feel bad and try to sort it as i see her looking so low in response...
  2. How am I supposed to feel??

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Ok. I am new here and this will be long but I really need some advice. My husband and I have been married for 3 years (married 2015). We had a stupid argument over scrambled eggs that snowballed into him wanting a physical seperation. The argument started because he made scrambled eggs for...
  3. New Surprises every month....girlfriend of crossdresser

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello, I am new here and stressed/upset beyond belief. I hope that you all will not add more stress by judging me for what I have been going through willingly....until now. I have been dating a fellow (much younger) for 7 plus months now and he informed me in the beginning that he likes to...
  4. We want to fix marriage, but I feel too much water gone under the bridge

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, This a bit of a long one... If you feel able to respond to leave a comment, we'd appreciate it. Please reply to us as you would like to be spoken to yourself - peacefully and respectfully. Thank you. I'm married (M37) to my wife (F34), for 11 years, together for 18 years in total...
  5. Wife separated from me

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife separated from me three weeks ago. She moved in with her brother and is staying there in his spare bedroom. At first we told each other that we loved each other. Now she doesn't want us to do that anymore to each other. This just came about last sunday. Mind you at the end of the...
  6. Mixed Messages - Need Advice

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, Thanks so much in advance for any advice. Here is my story. About two months ago I got a text from my husband (not legally married) of 16 years saying that "he had to end things" and was too scared to do it in person. I first thought he was on drugs or someone got a hold of his phone...
  7. Help walk away

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My fiance who we have lived together for 3 years and moved across the country to be together after meeting on vacation through mutual family friends walked out a week ago. All the signs of walk away wife. Looking back on it there was opportunities I should have seen where she was communicating...
  8. A limbo that I am caught in separation very soon after getting married

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, My wife and I were happily married last year in October. I had put lots of hopes in it as I guessed that we would spend our life together for the rest of our life. But things went sour very soon after. My wife started going out a lot a month after our wedding with her drunken...
  9. Sleeping in Seperate Rooms

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    i found out about my wifes year long affair and I am currently two months out from the day I discovered it. for the past 2 weeks we have been sleeping in separate rooms because she kept details and other information from me, so I made the move. so far us being in separate rooms has calmed me...
  10. Reaching out

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello all, I'm reaching out to this forum because I saw some threads with similar situations like the one I'm currently going through. Any advice would be much appreciated! Here's my story: My wife and I have been together for 9 years. We have 3 children 5/7/9 (oldest is from...
  11. Hopefully my story can help someone

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. And we are getting a divorce. It's the single greatest pain I've ever gone through. You know how they say when a member of a long married couple passes away, the other often goes within 6 months? I completely understand why. I feel physically...
  12. Confused: My wife needs her space - Adive appreciated

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hey all, thank you for reading this and I am glad to have found a place where I can talk and hopefully seek advice and similar experiences to share. My wife and I have been married for 5 years now and we have a 3 1/2 year old son, who was born 1 year after we got married. When we had our...
  13. In need of different points of view...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I met my wife traveling the world as a performer, she is a performer as well. We started out as friends and became very good friends. neither of us was single at the time and really had no devices on the other...just a great friendship plane and simple. We were friends for about 5-6 months...
  14. If you had access, would you?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    If you and your spouse were separated (not legally, just moved apart.... divorce will get filed months later once you can establish residency.) And if your spouse changed the password to the online banking on the computer but didn't change the password to the app, that you both have access...
  15. The young & Married. Also the young & unsure!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello my name is Gabrielle. I promise to try to keep this short,but looking for a little insight outside of my own trapped mind & my familys oppinions. Im 21 y/o female civilian. Married a 29 y/o military male Before we got married I was cheated on by his ex and others. Even tho he had...
  16. 2 Years Dating, 5 Years Marriage with 2 Years Apart

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...
  17. Beyond lost!!!!!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    About a year and a half ago my husband and I lost a child (baby) to a rare sickness. We were both very devastated and had difficulty coming to terms to why it happened. The whole thing was so tragic and stressful. We both returned to work about three months after the loss, and in December about...
  18. STBX had a stroke, how would you feel?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi guys, So to sum things up I found out my stbx was having an affair last summer. He didn't want to work on our marriage and put me through hell with the lies and heartbreak. The kids and I stayed for about a year though due to financial reasons and just last month we finally left so that...
  19. Wife wants separation from breadwinning / stay at home husband

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife has just told me she is not happy and wants has given me a ultimatum to get a separation. The ultimatum consist of 2 choices. If I want to have any chance of reconciliation then I need to move out. The second is if I choose to stay and not leave she will leave and in her words "I will...
  20. Considering Divorce 14 yrs & 3 kids

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am considering/planning to file for divorce or separation. Quick details. Married 14 years, 3 kids, 11, 9 and 1. We never should have gotten married. I remember having doubts on our wedding day and even before. The first couple of years things were fine. I am not sure I was happy, but I...
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