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My husband and i have been my for 15 years and three kids. Been together like 23 years altogether. We have our issues and had infidelity on his part through our marriage. So over the years i might not have been as nice but when i was needed i was there. Our relationship is was great except for...

Hello! I am new here, new to everything I guess. Just want to get my story out there, maybe get some help and support if anyone can. On Halloween, my husband sent me a text while he was at work that we “weren’t working out” and he thought we got married too soon. I didn’t know what to do. The...

So this Nov will be 3 yrs since we have been married. I'm 31, he is 35. I can't help but feel one foot out the door. I want to let the reader know that everything that I am putting into this post, has been voiced to my husband several times, almost spoon-fed, and yet nothing changes. I have told...

Hello, for context purposes I am a 27 year old woman and my partner is a 26 year old man. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost five years now. We met in his country while I was living with distant family for my studies. Him and I lived in his country for 4 years, we bought...

Hi everyone, So when I moved out of our rented apartment and went back to stay with my parents, I left behind quite a few of my belongings with my husband. At that time there was no intention to separate or proceed with a divorce. I just needed some space to figure out our relationship and...

Hi all. I’m a first-time poster here but have been reading threads on the page for a while. Reading through the advice given to others has been helpful, as I try to navigate the current state of my marriage. I’ve started seriously considering separation and/or divorce, and was hoping this...

I wasn’t sure how to link my old post to the thread, but i made another thread on here about about how I found out my husband cheated but I was quietly moving out before confronting him. If you haven’t come across it, long story short I found out my husband cheated on me with his male assistant...

Hello, new here, just trying to reach out to people that are going through similar situations. After 9 yrs of marriage and a relationship of 16 yrs my wife has decided it is best for us to separate/divorce. I am having a hard time dealing with the emotional aspect of this loss, we have been...

My husband and I have been together for 17 years (since I was 15 years old) and have several children together. His mother has hated me from day one no matter what I ever did to try to make her like me. She bullied me as a teenager and has moved to spreading awful lies about me and the way I...

Three weeks ago I found out my husband has been cheating on me. We've been together for 6 years in total (married for 2) and we have a 5-month-old. We both turn 30 this year. I'm not sure for how long he was cheating just yet but it had to have been going on for at least a few months or so...

My wife(after 32 years-since HSchool) told me about 3 months ago that she was leaving(separation possible divorce) around the end of November of this year 2021. A few days ago she bought a storage unit and she's there now putting a few things into it. Even with the warning I feel like a deer in...

My wife and I (married less than a year together for 5 with a two year old son) have recently started a separation process. I was not the best husband. She has valued reasons to be where she is. Binge drinking was an issue although no physical abuse or cheating. But I did drunk call women...

I stayed single and independent for the longest time.. I married older and I thought I was marrying the right guy. I did not say perfect, he's human after all. I dated this guy when we were in our 20's and too young to get married. He went on with his life, got married, no children, divorced...

Two weeks ago, my (M37) wife (F33) of more than seven years asked me for a separation. Although it came somewhat out of the blue, it was preceded by about seven weeks of terrible communication, tensions related to her work, her being physically and emotionally absent from the home and household...

I never thought that I would be going through a separation with the love of my life. I married the person I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I never saw this coming but I had a feeling it was... not because it was a toxic relationship or anything in that nature but because...

Long story shorter than detailed version. I met my husband the night that my best friend had her 21st bday party now almost 13 years ago. My husband now was a friend of her friend, I had just left the hospital from being with my Dad for a week after taking him in while having a stroke. I was...

I finally left my drunk ex last December 21. On that day he had been drunk for 8 days straight and fell down the stairs. I called an ambulance because he was bleeding profusely. The first responders were police officer who arrested me because, in his drunk state, he said I pushed him down the...

Looking for some advice on separation/divorce. I have been married for 17 years, and we have three boys, 11, 13 and 14. Kids adore their dad, and he is an excellent father. He has been involved in all their activities, and coaches whatever sport they play – soccer, hockey, baseball. Takes them...

Hello, so I’ve never written on one of these and frankly, don’t know where to start. I’m a married woman of 5 years and it’s felt like a life time. I’m truly in such an unhappy marriage I can’t see us ever mending the hurt that has transpired over the past 5 years. We have two small children...

Hello everyone, I am new to this message board, and I’m reaching out for some advice. I have been married for 12 years and have two girls (9 and 7). My husband and I have had trouble throughout our marriage including: financial trouble (in which I was blamed for spending too much money), not...