It’s been 90 days and I’m currently separated from my husband. Long story short I made the choice to go against my husbands wishes and separate. He warned me before I left that he doesn’t believe in separations and that’s immediate grounds for him divorcing me. Although I told him our...

And I literally do not know what to do with myself. I am not grief stricken exactly. Nor am I angry exactly...I do not want him back, but but but...I want him to be hurt, lost without me and the boys, apologize, change his behavior in some meaningful way. For instance he had been unemployed for...

I’d love to hear some advice. My husband just filed for divorce last week. Prior to that he was getting frustrated and sad that I kept complaining about his work schedule. I said some pretty harsh things including you should move out of the bedroom because we don’t have much of a relationship. I...

I’ve been to therapy for a few months since learning from my children that my husband had been in an ongoing affair- they were 3 and 5. I was absolutely devastated and the first thing that my husband said was that it was both of our faults and that I need to own my part. I did so much for him...

Hello, I apologize if this is long, it has been a while since I posted.

It's been several months since I've been on the forum. Some on here may recognize me. My marital issues started to escalate back in September when my husband moved from our room to the guest room. Fast forward to December and I discover he'd had an affair. Right after Christmas I moved back...

How do you get around the problem that when you communicate only on an as needed basis and as little as possible with your wife who left you, she can just fill her need for communication by chatting with her divorced (toxic) girlfriends to get her communication needs met. They will of course...

dated since 1991, co-habituated since 1994, just married 2 yrs ago because I thought he was finally trustworthy. He is a great man in many respects and I know he loves me. He works on the road (1to2 wks at time). I always suspected, but caught with evidence of sex with another woman in 2001...

Hi guys, I am new here and some advice will really help me a lot. I'll try to keep this as short as possible. My hubby and I are 6 years married, 8 years together and we have two kids. Two years ago, I was involved in an affair with a friend, its not really an emotional one. I know this is wrong...

I was married to my second husband for seven years when we separated and then three years into working on it divorced. After our divorce is when he pursued getting back together with me. I resisted but after four years of counseling, marriage workshops, a lot of soul searching and faith to say...

Hello i am 27 years old and my husband is 34. we have been married for 8 years(anniversary is actually today) and we have 2 boys ages 4 and 7. I don't know what to do anymore. Over the past year, things between him and i have not been that great. i feel like we are growing apart, and we are both...

I have been married for over a year. My husband insisted on living with his parents in his mother's house for reasons of elder care. I moved in with them. To cut a long story short, his mother hijacked the marriage from Day One and destroyed it even before it had a chance to begin. I lived with...

My wife of nearly 17 years has decided she wants to end our marriage. We had a loving, joyful, passionate, respectful marriage, and we have three beautiful daughters. Six months ago she saw her ex-fiance at a mutual friend's party, and they began an emotional affair for a month and a half. Since...

A little bit of back story: I met my husband 8 years ago and things were great. We were both in our early twenties with very little responsibility. We enjoyed dancing all night and drinking and all kinds of carrying on. We were exciting and passionate. After 8 months of dating we decided to...

I'll be brief. Putting the facts: 1. I love my wife (4 years marriage) like crazy. 2. Never cheated on any of my previous relationships 3. I cheated on my wife 3 years ago when we were separated (work, her pregnancy) and stayed in different continents for 6 moths (I visited her twice in that...

HI I have benn "separated" (not really though) since Jan. 2010. I have been living in the basement. My wife has been cought the 3rd time in an affair. 1st was a stranger, 2nd was a co worker, and 3rd was the boyfriend she she left for me. I have found out these affairs through internet chats...