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  1. Separation

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been separated for months now and I miss him terribly. He treats me like I'm invisible tho and I've been thinking about moving to another state but the only thing holding me back is hoping my marriage will somehow workout. I really want to move because I believe I will find myself again...
  2. Tomorrow.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm sitting here getting wine-drunk dreading tomorrow. I have to tell my husband I don't love him anymore. We got married pretty quickly, like a few months into knowing each other. I know, I'm stupid. He was a stand-up guy when we got together. Optimistic, had huge goals he was working on, had...
  3. Husband may leave me. Homosexual/Bixsexual

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Sorry this is so long. So last week was amazing, but Sunday was the most horrible day ever. Turns out my husband had been trying to reconnect with me and it was wonderful. We had been feeling some disconnect lately. I thought it was because of my injury and having to live with my parents. It's...
  4. In love with someone else and it hurts

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Dear friends, This is the second time I write in this forum. I wrote a post one year ago, seeking advise on my jealous/angry wife. This is my last post, for some context: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-relationship-discussion/252786-jealous-wife.html. Things have slightly improved, as my...
  5. Second Second Chance

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I got married after knowing each other for a month, and immediately moved in together this year, at 20 years old. I can honestly say I learned love at first sight was real when I saw him and he felt the same. We spent two weeks together following the first day we met. (He's...
  6. Just about ready to throw in the white flag

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband has emotionally cheated on me, and near physically had I not caught it. This was a year ago to date and now I come to find he is doing it again with another woman, and I don't know if it has gotten physical because he is out of state right now for mental treatment. I don't believe him...
  7. Husband not good enough?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello everyone, I am in an arranged marriage, which essentially means I did not really know the kind of guy my husband is before we got married. I have lived with him now for a year and over time our sex life has gone from bad to worse (I was initially hoping he would learn to recognize my...
  8. Marital Strife

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    I am with my husband for 6 years and married for 4. We have just had another row – a constant in our relationship. I constantly feel sad, low and unloved. Sex happens about three times a year, since we stopped trying for a baby (which I now realize is good for any potential child we would have...
  9. Doesn't want the committment, but everything else.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Here's the short version, which is still kind of long...the day before our 23rd anniversary she decides she has had enough with family, bills and the day to day grind that people deal with. She leaves, not telling me where she is going or her plans. Two days later I receive a call from a...
  10. Married my best friend, just admitted we don't have romantic feelings

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm 26 and my husband is 30. We met on the internet when I was 18 and he was 22 (He didn't know my age at the time) on a musician's message board. We emailed constantly and then he came to visit me from his home state (17 hour drive). When we met, we didn't have that physical spark but we...
  11. Question about 180 - OK to say "I miss you?"

    Reconciliation
    :scratchhead:Hi All - I am seeing my husband (for dinner) tonight for the first time since he moved out a week ago to take a "time out"/separation. I am doing my best to work the 180 program, and I get that it is not advised to say ILY, but no where on the list does it give direction on whether...
  12. Husband Cheated - Headed for Divorce - Advice Please!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have never posted in a forum before. But like many that have come before me I have found myself at the end of a ten year marriage. We have been separated for 10 weeks, though the problems began in the fall. So we are 5 months into this disaster. I will do my best to keep this concise. I...
  13. When to call it quits

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Like many others, this is the first time I have used a forum to post personal issues/questions but I am needing some non-biased advice. My husband and I have been married for 14 years, together for 17. We started dating when we were teenagers and have two children, ages 16 and 13. I...
  14. How do you know when to draw the line?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I'm 33 and have been married a little over 2 years. We don't have kids. I could seriously use some outsider opinions to see if i'm thinking straight or not. In my honest moments, I knew I shouldn't have married him. It didn't feel right ever. I was a nervous wreck the night before the...
  15. Separated and Indecisive

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I initiated a trial separation from my husband 6 weeks ago after he asked me "if I'd miss him if he wasn't around" and I couldn't answer. Well, after 6 weeks, I can definitely state that I don't miss him. I miss my 3 daughters, but I don't miss him. That being said, however, I still can't...
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