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  1. Marriage Dilemma

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I've been married for 5 years now, going on 6 yrs in November - no children. My husband has developed a deep interest in video games and has been working the night shift for 3 years. On weekends when he has off, he will spend his time playing video games and then he will sleep. I've...
  2. Wife separated, confused and wants space!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I (being together for 8 years and married for 5 years) had some issues in the past and I never thought that they are serious and major. Nonetheless, on 1st of December 2017, when I came home after work, I noticed that she took all her belongings with herself without any notice and...
  3. Separation May Be Next

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Two years ago my husband began to change. First he got a promotion, which was great but it added more work hours. Soon after he sadly lost a relative with whom he was really close and it made him realize it was time to rid some poisonous relationships he had. When he started to break down a...
  4. How to become less clingy (needy?)

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    We are in the process of separating. She's moving out in about a month (her choice). I am being very clingy. I kiss her all the time (on the head/shoulder, cheek if she allows it) and tail her around the house. It's hard to stop, it seems that after she told me she is leaving me, my desire for...
  5. 8 years of marriage now separated [ FIRST TWO WEEKS] Advice?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    It's been 16 days since my husband decided to tell me he didn't love me anymore, he no longer wanted this home or this life and he was leaving me. He felt this was the best for the both of us. There is nobody else. He was unhappy. We have no kids, just a dog. Although he thought my job was...
  6. Wife Separated... Now What?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Over the last two years I have had problems in my marriage. I had already posted on this site for advice during that time. However, recently, my wife confessed that she had an inappropriate relationship with another man. I know the man. However, she said that while it was inappropriate, it...
  7. How does someone just FALL OUT OF LOVE?!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello my story is similar to many others considering divorce/separation: My husband and I have been married for 10 years this year in October; we've had our ups & downs as many couples do. We've separated for a few days in the past years, and we always fix things. This year he went back to...
  8. Husband had an affair, separated, MLC?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    A little back story… My husband and I have been together 10 years, married almost seven. As far as I knew things were going great, we were loving towards each other, texted throughout the day and were excited to see each other in the evening, laughed together all the time. Things in the...
  9. Separated - husband can't decide what next

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    This is going to be a long story, so please just bare with me. I've gone back to edit it to trim it down a bit :) * been together for 2 years, married 8 months * had been under contract for buying a house when this started * I just got accepted into nursing school 5 days before he dropped the...
  10. Help I am a mental basket case

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband of 20 years told me in October that he was no longer "in love" with me and was no longer physically attracted to me. I felt like he punched me in the face. I was completely devastated. We have 3 children together (5, 9, 12). For the past 2 1/2 months we have been talking and...
  11. Starting a Trial Separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi All. I'm new here and just about to start a trial separation with my husband. We've been married for just over 3 1/2 years and are having some serious issues. I apologize in advance for the long post ahead.... My husband has been a serial cheater. I feel like every form a logic should tell me...
  12. Should I initiate communication during the separation?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife have been together for nine years and married for three of those. We recently separated. The context There is a never ending cycle of blame so it is difficult for me to pinpoint the starting point. In general, for me, it was more about my perceived observation that she tends to want to...
  13. How does a marriage full of love include an affair!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 3. Out of those 7 years I would say 2 of them have been sour and I was powerless to realize until she took me to a counselor. She hit with the news that she has been having an affair with a co-worker for six months. During this I was...
  14. Help me what to do or make of my husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    am in a mess and feel like killing myself. This is my second marriage and a love one which I fought with my family over when they were all against him. I relocated to be with my husband leaving my job, home, family and friends. YES I gave up to be with him. My first marriage lasted 13 years...
  15. Desparate time call for......

    General Relationship Discussion
    Having been told ILYB in the fall by my wife of 12 years I've been making significant changes to my behavior that has driven us away from each other. Two beautiful kids of 9 and 6 and they've obviously kept us together further than had we not had them (just giving more background). Today, she...
  16. Separated:My husband is with another woman

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been separated for five months now. He is living with another woman. We have a toddler together. We have been together for almost 10 years, and married for 4. He got with another woman only a month after we separated. How could he move on so quickly? and I feel like I want...
  17. Don't know if I should divorce him or not

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    In 2002 I moved to Vegas to meet my now husband (seperated for now). Things seemed fine until about being there in Vegas for 2 weeks. That was when I learned he was still married (we met online by the way). Me being only 22 and already engaged to this man felt that I should give him a chance to...
  18. Separated for a year and wife wants me back?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I could sure use some unbiased advice… I have been separated for a year, wife of 11 years moved out 7 months ago. We always cared and loved for each other, but grew apart in the last few years and i sensed some distance, and from time to time, felt that she wasn't happy. Last year i found out...
  19. I'm married but going through a separation and she wants to stay married

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    We've been fighting a lot and I'll make this a short thing...she decided that she's moving out I really don't want this because really Ive been trying really hard ti make it work and we were getting a long better but just 2 nights ago we had a talk and that's when she told me she was moving...
  20. Is this what a separation is meant to look or feel like?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, My wife of just ten months moved to the UK where I live with my 3 kids for which I have full custody. To say the last ten months has been tempestuously turbulent would be an understatement of well..the last ten months. After going through four Marriage Counsellors, church counsellor...
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