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Hi. So, my husband cheats every time we get into an argument pretty much or any time he is under a lot of stress. He checks all of the boxes of a serial cheater. We are in therapy now, and my therapist said that she believes that he could change and only time will tell. She supports me giving...

I’m a M38, together with a F35 for 14 years, married for 12, happy with no kids. We’ve been through some pretty major life traumas during our marriage and survived unscathed or even come out stronger (major career changes, death of a sibling, religious deconversions, rejection/alienation from...

My wife and eye were together 9 years and she said she was leaving me April 28th 2021. She left September 1st 2021. I am currently still living in the marital house, with almost everything still here. She has no plans of reconciliation. We have a young boy together. She is living with her...

We met in school and have been together 24 years. Two kids, now 13 and 14. He was my soulmate and we were so happy for so long, until the kids turned 3/4. They had a lot of issues and required constant attention and a lot of work. And we both had demanding jobs that required long hours. For...

Hi all, my husband and I got married about 11 months ago. Sorry if this is long. I don’t want to miss a single point. You may ask questions if I missed anything. Prior to getting married, we were together for 2 years and 3 months. About a week ago, I got upset with my husband, (something...

Two weeks ago me and my wife came to the conclusion that we should separate. We have been together for 15 years and have 3 children, (13,7,4). We have had a great relationship over the years, but after our youngest was born we both kind of withdrew into ourselves. Last year she had an emotional...

My husband has always been notorious for making poor decisions with money. When I try to get involved to help or look for ways to help us save he finds me annoying. When I had to temporarily shut my business down during lockdown, he purchased a 400 dollar gold club when I was running...

Hello ladies! I am totally new here and am looking for some advice, hoping someone here has been in a similar situation. My husband and I have been married almost 3 years (Sept.) Been a couple for 7. Throughout these 7 years he has been caught in 6 affairs, most recently the beginning of this...

My marriage is in shambles. My husband has cheated on me and has been wanting us to break up because he wants to single, date other people and do things without having to be accountable to anyone. He’s been distant, sometimes mean to me and angry. He’s still active on dating sites. Yes, I know...

My husband and I are going through a separation right now , it’s been very hard on me . Idk what to do to make my days go by faster , all I want to do is sleep , I’m heartbroken . Is there any hope for separation ? He says time will tell and I’m not at all a patient person . I have no friends...

New here and looking for friends to talk to about separation. Married, 40 & in Ohio. Hoping to stay married. My wife needed a mental health break & has been staying in a different state since July. We are both having health issues and it’s hard not to have her by my side for the first time as I...

Hi Everyone, I've been married for 5 years now, going on 6 yrs in November - no children. My husband has developed a deep interest in video games and has been working the night shift for 3 years. On weekends when he has off, he will spend his time playing video games and then he will sleep. I've...

My wife and I (being together for 8 years and married for 5 years) had some issues in the past and I never thought that they are serious and major. Nonetheless, on 1st of December 2017, when I came home after work, I noticed that she took all her belongings with herself without any notice and...

Two years ago my husband began to change. First he got a promotion, which was great but it added more work hours. Soon after he sadly lost a relative with whom he was really close and it made him realize it was time to rid some poisonous relationships he had. When he started to break down a...

We are in the process of separating. She's moving out in about a month (her choice). I am being very clingy. I kiss her all the time (on the head/shoulder, cheek if she allows it) and tail her around the house. It's hard to stop, it seems that after she told me she is leaving me, my desire for...

It's been 16 days since my husband decided to tell me he didn't love me anymore, he no longer wanted this home or this life and he was leaving me. He felt this was the best for the both of us. There is nobody else. He was unhappy. We have no kids, just a dog. Although he thought my job was...

Over the last two years I have had problems in my marriage. I had already posted on this site for advice during that time. However, recently, my wife confessed that she had an inappropriate relationship with another man. I know the man. However, she said that while it was inappropriate, it...

Hello my story is similar to many others considering divorce/separation: My husband and I have been married for 10 years this year in October; we've had our ups & downs as many couples do. We've separated for a few days in the past years, and we always fix things. This year he went back to...

A little back story… My husband and I have been together 10 years, married almost seven. As far as I knew things were going great, we were loving towards each other, texted throughout the day and were excited to see each other in the evening, laughed together all the time. Things in the...